Hi everyone, so I clicked with nine more than any other enneagram, mistaking myself as a 4. I have a hard time feeling anything and can get really bad passive aggression. I tend to bundle things all inside me, and I hate getting angry. I avoid conflicts as much as I can, and suck to standing up to myself. I feel invisible and I always feel I have to try really hard for people to acknowledge me. Interpersonal relationships define me, no doubt. Also, quite a few INFJ's are 9's too. I will post more later, all I originally wanted to say, was said.