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    Default 7w6 retardation

    Not calling every 7w6 a retard. Only myself. So now that that's been clarified let me just say that I've been typed by several people versed in ENNG from PerC. Prior to that I took a free online test and was typed as a 6. Which couldn't explain my obnoxious 'bubbly' proactive problem solving, 'hooray lets all be happy' disposition. I've read lots on the other types and I'm confident with 7w6 being accurate and I was wondering what you thought about my recent realization of self.

    I tend to always be jumping from thing to thing. Creative projects, writings, books, etc. one thing I've done this past year or two was pick up typology as an interest and was intro'd into the forum world online. Like a fish to water I took to, and essentially, it's like the most fabulous form of distraction. So I find I distract myself with people/forum interactions when I'm bored or stressed or wanting to hide(hermit) myself from irl people. It's so lame. Meh. So anyways that's not the retarded part. I find that I have this predicament where I'm in this weird internal fight where I want to be in a happy relationship and maybe be normal for like 5 fucking minutes. But because my life circumstances are complicated and incredibly difficult, I'm stubbornly constantly trying to assert my independence (which I realize sorta pushes people away). And I find no matter how much I miss someone, I'm afraid or nervous to reach out. Not because I'm afraid of rejection. But rather, I don't want them to think I'm needy. It's so stupid, lol! Also, to make matters worse, I can't bring myself to ask for help but am always craving a teacher of sorts and the whole thing makes me feel like I'm completely ridiculous. So I just go with it and have fun(left un satisfied) anyways, I've decided I must be retarded :p (not the literal meaning of the word! Please don't give me a lecture over the word usage. It's just for lack of a better term. Ugh.

    There's more I guess but I'll spare you. The question is, I don't know my instinctual variants or the other types on my tripod and I'm thinking maybe there would be some value in understanding that. Maybe there's those influences to consider. Essentially, my goal is to determine how high do I need to jump to get over myself. :p I'm seriously standing in my own way. And I always feel like I'm wasting time! But I haven't figured out how to conquer this skeleton I found in my purse last night.

    Honest feedback will be appreciated. I'm not easily offended so don't hesitate to spit it out. I'm more or less in analytical mode so expect me not to accept notions blindly but rather, I'll enjoy taking them apart to help me understand. Thanks for any input in advance!!
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    so interesting how your 7w6ness makes you sound un infj i mean...not the words just the way they're said. i think. i haven't put much thought yet into if it has anything to do with the actual words but the rhythm and flow is what i'm talking about.

    this will be interesting for me.

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    sorry...i was so distracted by that that i didn't hear what you're asking.

    is it what your trifix and instinctual stacking is?

    if so...i'll let others who are more quick to type help ya with that.

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    I'll be back. This is interesting.
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    Since you indicated you are not easily offended...I'll just come right out with the fact I feel like this OP is fake or contrived just to mess with people or something.

    So when these high profile PersC individuals were typing you as 7w6 did anyone mention anything about MBTI and you not seeming to be an INFJ or was that left untouched/unaddressed? And if you truly are an INFJ 7w6...(which I personally think is more of a unicorn than the unicorns in your avi & sig)...I imagine you would know how rare you are and subsequently understand that this OP and the random info contained within wouldn't even remotely be enough by which to type you by with regards to...you know...instinctual variants and 'tripod.'

    I probably won't return to this thread...but I think it would be helpful to anyone attempting to type you... if you were to close these enormous gaps first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    Since you indicated you are not easily offended...I'll just come right out with the fact I feel like this OP is fake or contrived just to mess with people or something.

    So when these high profile PersC individuals were typing you as 7w6 did anyone mention anything about MBTI and you not seeming to be an INFJ or was that left untouched/unaddressed? And if you truly are an INFJ 7w6...(which I personally think is more of a unicorn than the unicorns in your avi & sig)...I imagine you would know how rare you are and subsequently understand that this OP and the random info contained within wouldn't even remotely be enough by which to type you by with regards to...you know...instinctual variants and 'tripod.'

    I probably won't return to this thread...but I think it would be helpful to anyone attempting to type you... if you were to close these enormous gaps first.
    Why would that be offensive? Dude you intro'd that like you were about to drop the mother load of, "bitch .. Listen heya" ... Lol! No. I'm not offended. I don't mind going through the rigamoo one more time. You may dub me as another type if it makes you feel better. And if you're right, yaaaay!! That's awesome! Because I am so sick of my crap as of the late. I analyze everything to a bloody fucking mess!

    So. Hx. I took several online tests all of which came back infj. I then had a lot of people on PerC initially dispute infj so I felt like. Ok. Rather than blow a trumpet here I better make for sure for sure because that'll be just stupid otherwise. So I paid 60$ on the Meyer brigs site and got infj again. Then, I went through about 3 months of heavy online activity putting my thoughts out their and long story short, the only people who don't think I'm infj are the ones not too familiar with me.

    Initially on the forum I put in the same sig I have here. But instead of it being a joke, I was serious. I've some cognitive theory edu. Lots of life experience and so I just verbally vomited everywhere. But I learn quick and I'm not one to discard evidence and I learn best through people (not that I don't learn well from books. Luuuuv books. Just people teach me more in a way. Hard to explain). Anyways, Fe for sure. Introvert for sure. Cocky 7 for sure. J over p for sure. N over S for sure. Maybe there's a differing type arrangement?

    Ya know. You seem pissy. Like, instead of throwing you thoughts out there, you have like this "grr. I'm assuming you're just a troll. Wasting my time so I won't be back but I'm spending the time to tell you what I think". Dude why? Why not be curious and wait? Anyways I have no problems answering questions and going through the drills again. Just know it's more for you than me. Like, omg! I never saw a boat so can't see it! Effect. So if you can not take these words personal and consider that I'm just responding to the emotional tone with your response, all good! We're on neutral ground. Skeptically pick my brain away. I don't bite. I don't love you enough to bite you :p
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    Quote Originally Posted by NKC View Post
    Why would that be offensive? Dude you intro'd that like you were about to drop the mother load of, "bitch .. Listen heya" ... Lol! No. I'm not offended. I don't mind going through the rigamoo one more time. You may dub me as another type if it makes you feel better. And if you're right, yaaaay!! That's awesome! Because I am so sick of my crap as of the late. I analyze everything to a bloody fucking mess!

    So. Hx. I took several online tests all of which came back infj. I then had a lot of people on PerC initially dispute infj so I felt like. Ok. Rather than blow a trumpet here I better make for sure for sure because that'll be just stupid otherwise. So I paid 60$ on the Meyer brigs site and got infj again. Then, I went through about 3 months of heavy online activity putting my thoughts out their and long story short, the only people who don't think I'm infj are the ones not too familiar with me.

    Initially on the forum I put in the same sig I have here. But instead of it being a joke, I was serious. I've some cognitive theory edu. Lots of life experience and so I just verbally vomited everywhere. But I learn quick and I'm not one to discard evidence and I learn best through people (not that I don't learn well from books. Luuuuv books. Just people teach me more in a way. Hard to explain). Anyways, Fe for sure. Introvert for sure. Cocky 7 for sure. J over p for sure. N over S for sure. Maybe there's a differing type arrangement?

    Ya know. You seem pissy. Like, instead of throwing you thoughts out there, you have like this "grr. I'm assuming you're just a troll. Wasting my time so I won't be back but I'm spending the time to tell you what I think". Dude why? Why not be curious and wait? Anyways I have no problems answering questions and going through the drills again. Just know it's more for you than me. Like, omg! I never saw a boat so can't see it! Effect. So if you can not take these words personal and consider that I'm just responding to the emotional tone with your response, all good! We're on neutral ground. Skeptically pick my brain away. I don't bite. I don't love you enough to bite you :p
    Strong waste of 60$ Wtf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    so interesting how your 7w6ness makes you sound un infj i mean...not the words just the way they're said. i think. i haven't put much thought yet into if it has anything to do with the actual words but the rhythm and flow is what i'm talking about.

    this will be interesting for me.
    Ya know. Let's not forget that environment etc. I'm 2nd generation American and so had a lot of old school mentality growing up. I am one of very few feeler types in my fam. They all think I'm just stupid no doubt. I barely open up to them anyways because of it. Father and brother both entp. Everyone else sensors. Don't be so thin skinned was the mantra chanted to me growing up.

    I'm a creative writer. Writing is my thing. By no means do I think I'm good. Just enjoy it. Like breathing. I also am Sicilian and Irish. That might explain the fact that I'm batshit crazy :p I can not live without sense of humor. That would just make life brutal!! I don't know. I like who I am but regardless of being all grown up, I still have a mini emo that lives inside me and I flirt like a 12 yr. old. I can't get anywhere !!! I have no sense of direction. I'm sick of always being the one to give advice about relationship junk but never have one because I'm retarded!!

    So yes. How do you figure out the other sets of numbers. And the instincts. I came here because per c is high school for the most part. Which is fine and dandy when I have that urge to help people, make them feel better and/or distract myself, be silly etc.

    That's all. Not meaning to get anyone all grumpy and shit. I'm not trolling. I troll like a 5 yr old so even if I were to troll, you would have to be a total dud to get THAT upset over someone trying to be silly,cheesy etc. really now. :p just my opinion I suppose.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saudade View Post
    Strong waste of 60$ Wtf.
    Okay. So I'm assuming you don't see infj either? Good! Maybe this forum can be the holy grail of resolving my dysfunction. It would make life incredibly easier to be honest. Any thoughts ? What type do you think ? Considering we don't know me that well, you're totally welcome to prod with questions. Maybe I'm another type and then this will be all the easier of a quandary to solve. I mean that!! *hugs*
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    are you sure you're an introvert??

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