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[Type 9] Are 9w8s the kinkiest E-type?

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I've noticed alot of 9w8s have this sexual vibe about them that's hard to explain. The male 9w8s I know for example will post pictures of the kinkiest, most pornographic pictures imaginable on their tumblers or instagrams and top it off with a winky face in the description. Some 9w8 girls aren't shy about flaunting their kinkiness either (on social media of course). In contrast, posting or talking about things like that in detail isn't something that comes natural for me. I'm only lightly-sexual, if at all.

It's not something that's obvious in daily interaction (unless the topic comes up), but there's this very subdued primal-like sexuality to them that I don't see in other types, even other sx-doms. Male 9w8s are the types who just casually lose their virginities at 11.
 

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Are you sure you aren't describing 8w9? They're the sleeping bear. I thought my esfp was a 9w8 at first but no. He's an 8w9 - they can seem almost chill like a 9 on the surface but aren't real peace makers but just seek control more quietly or secretly, are closet sadists, and/or have rare outburst following long periods of appearing unmoved.

The 8w9 I am close to is what you describe. He was sexually 25 at 18.

My esfj sister is an actual 9w8 referee and actually used to be the prude of the family.
 
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Are you sure you aren't describing 8w9? They're the sleeping bear. I thought my esfp was a 9w8 at first but no. He's an 8w9 - they can seem almost chill like a 9 on the surface but aren't real peace makers but just seek control more quietly or secretly, are closet sadists, and/or have rare outburst following long periods of appearing unmoved.

The 8w9 I am close to is what you describe. He was sexually 25 at 18.

My esfj sister is an actual 9w8 referee and actually used to be the prude of the family.

Nah, their energy is pretty withdrawn. Rihanna comes to mind when I think of a kinky 9w8:



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Lots of sx-doms in general are all like this, but sexual 9w8s seem even kinkier in nature.
 

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Im not sure you're correct about this. I think 7s could be kinky out of weirdness and sometimes porn is a subtle form of dominance or even violence, which I can see linked to 8 because of their tendency toward body and being in control, and they have a presence because of it...and you mentioned animal presence.

My sister is a 9w8 and she desires peace at all costs yet often makes herself a leader in a natural way. She's truly the referee. She is the least kinky of my sisters, though she is more comfortable with sexuality than she once was.
 

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It could be that you personally like 9w8 people the most.

I've found all sx doms I've been with sexually intense in different ways (it may vary by type) but you know some sx doms are intensely celibate or asexual while still desiring deep emotional intimacy. Sx dom can equal hyper sexual but sometimes it doesn't express itself physically, just emotionally and intellectually.
 

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Sx/sps I think...

I know a 9w8 who is pretty sexual, without trying, but I also know a very quiet 9w8 who is really not that sexual at all, and then I know a 9w8 who is more the referee type and is sensual but not really overtly sexual, though certainly attractive.
 
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I try not to openly flaunt my sexuality; it's the 21st century and I strongly desire to not come off rapist-like.

But it's there, an unavoidable chunk of my life. I'm probably above the mean in this regard. I am honored by the potential delegation, if that means anything.
 

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Im going to be a bit of an obnoxious pedant here and now actually insist the op has confused 8w9 with 9w8....ive just done quite a bit of reading about enneagram neurosis and Naranjo (I think that is how it is spelled) classifies type 8 as Lust and Sadism.
 

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The two most kinky types IMO are the 7w8 sx/so and the 6w7 sx/so. Generally any of the types that either have a strong 7 wing or that are core 7's that aren't sx last tend to be extremely kinky as well.

EDIT: I almost forgot, the sx dom 9w8 and the sx dom 2's are often very kinky as well.
 

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I've noticed alot of 9w8s have this sexual vibe about them that's hard to explain. The male 9w8s I know for example will post pictures of the kinkiest, most pornographic pictures imaginable on their tumblers or instagrams and top it off with a winky face in the description. Some 9w8 girls aren't shy about flaunting their kinkiness either (on social media of course). In contrast, posting or talking about things like that in detail isn't something that comes natural for me. I'm only lightly-sexual, if at all.

It's not something that's obvious in daily interaction (unless the topic comes up), but there's this very subdued primal-like sexuality to them that I don't see in other types, even other sx-doms. Male 9w8s are the types who just casually lose their virginities at 11.

I would say they're the least kinkiest type...being that I slept with one for 4 years...they don't like anything "weird"

Kinky????<----


Like tying people up and whipping them? a nine? doesn't wanna do that. Have you seen the movie Strictly Sexual. Stanny in that movie is a 9w8...he doesn't wanna do the crazy shit Donna wants to do.

Are you talking sucking on a toe?

What are you saying is kinky?

Anyways the answer is no. They're certainly not up for everything.

8w9's might be different. I guess
 

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Nah, I dated one for a while and I wouldn't call him kinky. I also think he was sx-last though.
 

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haha. I don't know about where I would rank the other types but I concur that a 9w8 sx sp can be very kinky.
 

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I would say they're the least kinkiest type...being that I slept with one for 4 years...they don't like anything "weird"

Kinky????<----


Like tying people up and whipping them? a nine? doesn't wanna do that. Have you seen the movie Strictly Sexual. Stanny in that movie is a 9w8...he doesn't wanna do the crazy shit Donna wants to do.

Are you talking sucking on a toe?

What are you saying is kinky?

Anyways the answer is no. They're certainly not up for everything.

8w9's might be different. I guess

Was it an sx last nine? I have yet to see an sx nine that isn't kinky. Somehow I can't imagine Rihanna or Beyonce being a boring lay if you know what I mean.
 

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Was it an sx last nine? I have yet to see an sx nine that isn't kinky. Somehow I can't imagine Rihanna or Beyonce being a boring lay if you know what I mean.

Well...Rihanna is gonna be kinky...

Beyonce ...no comment

Yes they were sx last though.

Maybe it's just sx doms are the kinkiest. I would agree with that statement.

It's hard for me to see E9 being kinky....maybe they lose thier virginity early...and maybe they post pics of themselves (like everyone else does), but I don't consider either of those two things as kinky.
 

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Well...Rihanna is gonna be kinky...

Beyonce ...no comment

Yes they were sx last though.

Maybe it's just sx doms are the kinkiest. I would agree with that statement.

It's hard for me to see E9 being kinky....maybe they lose thier virginity early...and maybe they post pics of themselves (like everyone else does), but I don't consider either of those two things as kinky.

I knew they were sx last!
 

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Yea I will never date someone with sx last again. It was terrible :dont:

I also tried to date someone whom was sx last. It was an INTJ 5w6 sp/so woman. There was just no sense of intimacy or connection between us. Sex with her wasn't passionate or intimate either. She was so sexual last TJ with her schedule that she set an egg timer for 20 minutes every time we had sex, and we could not go over that time limit EVER! I FUCKING HATED IT! It was like sex was purely physical with no intimacy or passion in it at all. FUCK THAT!
 

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I also tried to date someone whom was sx last. It was an INTJ 5w6 sp/so woman. There was just no sense of intimacy or connection between us. Sex with her wasn't passionate or intimate either. She was so sexual last TJ with her schedule that she set an egg timer for 20 minutes every time we had sex, and we could not go over that time limit EVER! I FUCKING HATED IT! It was like sex was purely physical with no intimacy or passion in it at all. FUCK THAT!

Woah. That's for real.

I mean I don't mind schedules, but that's a little crazy. (not the good crazy lol)

I don't think I would mind someone saying...hey, meet me in the bedroom at 04:00...That I can do...

But to put a limit on it...I would be pissed. I would not be able to concentrate.(not that I need that much time lol)

Did anyone ever climax? lol

I don't think I would have been able to do that to be honest. That would get old quick.

Yeeeaaa....gonna get me an sx dom next time lol

I'm best with people that are sp last. I can pay the bills...just sex me up lol
 
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