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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    9s are nice. I dated one for about a year. The passivity became troublesome after a while, though. I started to crave more friction, and a partner that I didn't have to handle with kid gloves.

    I understand that 9s are the most common partner for female 8s, however.
    Yeah, that's the same problem I had occur.. I felt sort of like a bully, always barking orders and getting no push back. It seems very tolerable in a friendship area, but when it comes to a relationship, I want opportunities for make up sex.. ... Theoretically..

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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    Yeah, that's the same problem I had occur.. I felt sort of like a bully, always barking orders and getting no push back. It seems very tolerable in a friendship area, but when it comes to a relationship, I want opportunities for make up sex.. ... Theoretically..
    Mhm. I hear ya.

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    The second is guys who I like the idea of, but for whatever reason couldn't actually take the plunge with (aka 1s, 7s and 8s).
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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    I think the only type I tend to reel away from is 1s. I'm unsure of why this is the case yet, but they almost speak another language to me.
    Purple monkey dishwasher.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SD45T-2 View Post
    Purple monkey dishwasher.
    There it is again!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    9s are nice. I dated one for about a year. The passivity became troublesome after a while, though. I started to crave more friction, and a partner that I didn't have to handle with kid gloves.

    I understand that 9s are the most common partner for female 8s, however.
    I would believe that and not just because I married a 9. He's not passive though, maybe he's a 9w8. I would call him more of a safe harbor and sometimes I really crave that.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    I would believe that and not just because I married a 9. He's not passive though, maybe he's a 9w8. I would call him more of a safe harbor and sometimes I really crave that.
    May I ask what his MBTI type is?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wind-Up Rex View Post
    May I ask what his MBTI type is?

    ENFJ
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kyuuei View Post
    Yeah, that's the same problem I had occur.. I felt sort of like a bully, always barking orders and getting no push back. It seems very tolerable in a friendship area, but when it comes to a relationship, I want opportunities for make up sex.. ... Theoretically..
    yeah... I've never respected someone who lets me walk all over them, as horrible as that sounds. yes, I know that I can be bossy, incredibly independent and I enjoy staring people down until they give up whenever the opportunity arises, but still... have a backbone, dammit!

    also, fighting isn't really necessary in an ACTUAL fighting manner... friendly banter and attempts to one up one another is a downright aphrodisiac though

    ... mostly I don't like it when other people cry and I caused it, mostly because the mix of feeling guilty and feeling victorious is confusing
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    Quote Originally Posted by whatever View Post
    yeah... I've never respected someone who lets me walk all over them, as horrible as that sounds. yes, I know that I can be bossy, incredibly independent and I enjoy staring people down until they give up whenever the opportunity arises, but still... have a backbone, dammit!

    also, fighting isn't really necessary in an ACTUAL fighting manner... friendly banter and attempts to one up one another is a downright aphrodisiac though

    ... mostly I don't like it when other people cry and I caused it, mostly because the mix of feeling guilty and feeling victorious is confusing
    Very well said.
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    5w6s (not cp 6 wing) and 9s.

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