You must follow your instincts, state. There is no such thing as coincidence, only your subconscious setting up your life to give you little signs as to which way you should go. You think it's weird how something weird happens sometimes and you think, man that's weird that that happened? Well, it's not; it's your brain saying 'hey dumbass, do this' in a subliminal kind of way. One technique my brain has developed is showing me the number 222 if I'm doing things right, and 555 if i'm not (5 is backwards 2). My brain could put those numbers in front of my face at any time in the day, and it would seem like crazy magic but it's not; it's just my brain's psychic ability and subconscious intelligence to arrange my life to coincide with these numbers.