I might actually be a wingless nine....I don't relate at all to the w8's roughness or the w1's judgmentalness...
I'm kind of in the same boat, just balanced instead, I relate to both...w1 slightly more though. It's possible to be balanced or a pure 9, but I'd try find some similar threads on PerC, where there's tons of material that should help you.
I don't think you'd call 9w8 aggressive, but more assertive...if that helps. Both subtypes are chill
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