I felt the same way when someone said I had a 7 for a wing. I was literally appalled. It's taken me about 5-6 months....but I have now embraced 7.
I don't get bothered by their characteristics, and I find it a strength now, not a weakness.
Good luck with accepting your wing
That's how you know. If you go straight to what the worst thing is (for you) then you're most likely a 6. It's subjective though, of course.
Also I don't relate to the authority, or loyal thing really.
When they say loyalty, they mean you don't want to be seen as rebellious....
For me that means that I don't come off as disagreeable to my close friends
I could care less about looking rebellious to some outsider I don't know though.
The authority thing manifests for me, because I look to structure in a system to support me (not necessarily people.) Kinda like I can be very 'by the books', and I always have a way of referencing and being supported by the rules. Stuff like that.
For me worse case scenario is always being physically hurt or dying...so yea, I like strength in numbers, like being in a herd. (At the same time, I'm very against the herd I'm so contradictory smh)