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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
    I'm guessing that's more of a 2 or 6 thing to do?
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    Not all 3s want to conform.

    Some of them like to innovate.

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    I'd think it's equal parts desire for acknowledgement and doing things...

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    3s are officially off my hate-dar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    3s are officially off my hate-dar
    Are you just saying that because you partially identify as one?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    3s are officially off my hate-dar
    Quote Originally Posted by Cloud of Thunder View Post
    Are you just saying that because you partially identify as one?
    I think it might have something to do with the fact that he's spent some serious time reading up a few 3's talk about themselves. A lot of his observations seem very familiar - almost as though I've made some statements myself [Not quite exactly, but I have made quite a few posts in the PerC E3 section and maybe he was a lurker there

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cloud of Thunder View Post
    Are you just saying that because you partially identify as one?
    somewhat. it's about 50/50 actually (I like a lot of 3 traits that I do NOT share at all. I have the focus of a 5 year old with ADD), also realizing that some 3s I've had bad experiences in the past where either
    - not the norm
    - not 3s
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    @Huxley3112
    a few points I believe you were off on
    - even unhealthy 3s are not very sensitive, they just tend to become more Machiavellian and manipulative
    - 3s are not likely to have issues with hostility (except from maybe an 8 or cp6 fix)
    - 3s actions can revolve around others, but the thing that all 3s have in common is that they revolve around something external that they are comparing themselves with. even in unhealthy 3s, this isn't always people.
    Just have a bit of a disagreement with your second point.

    Based on what I've read and even experienced, 3's can be very hostile at lower health levels. But not outwardly so. More likely to keep their hostility and jealousy to themselves.

    They can be jealous, vindictive and covetous of other people's success .. resulting in sabotaging other's success. They may not be outwardly hostile, because after all their self-image is extremely important to them [they would come across as more obviously fake and deceptive instead], but more likely to work behind the scenes to destroy other people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix View Post
    Just have a bit of a disagreement with your second point.
    Based on what I've read and even experienced, 3's can be very hostile at lower health levels. But not outwardly so. More likely to keep their hostility and jealousy to themselves.
    They can be jealous, vindictive and covetous of other people's success .. resulting in sabotaging other's success. They may not be outwardly hostile, because after all their self-image is extremely important to them [they would come across as more obviously fake and deceptive instead], but more likely to work behind the scenes to destroy other people.
    that's really what I meant (I agree with the rest of your post)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hazashin View Post
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    Wrong. You forgot that all of us value different things, and some of them value greatness.
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