@Cold Roses Coriolis is obviously right. Nothing external can ever dictate what we are. That information is stored within yourself and you're naturally not accountable to anyone about it. And you know what they say about opinions...well I best not repeat that old saying.
For what it's worth this page helped me when I was looking for my type because the INFJ description just clicked, unlike many of the other descriptions I'd read, because they felt more external to me. The page has an INTJ profile too. The link: http://personalityjunkie.com/the-intj/
Second page has the Te description.