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    Default I'm an unhealthy 7. Advice?

    I've been thinking about it, and I think I'm REALLY disintegrated.
    - I avoid facing reality like the plague
    - I am becoming increasingly condemning, harsh, critical and angry (stress 1, possibly unhealthy wing 8 tendencies)
    - I feel like there is this fog clouding my vision, keeping me from concentrating
    - my mind is never in the moment. I've almost lost the ability to focus on anything in the moment completely
    - histrionic and provocative
    does anyone have any advice?
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    Let go of any grudges or resentments you might have - they aren't doing you any good.
    Meditate, or just breathe slowly and heavily - it will help you empty your head.
    Exercise!
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    thanx!
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    You might want to change your place of residence to find new stimuli.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    You might want to change your place of residence to find new stimuli.
    easier said than done, but you are absolutely right
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    Good for you on the self-examination, kiddo! Hope things improve for you.

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    In all honesty - meditation, exercise or remembering to breathe slowly and calmly is all you need - body-based exercises. The problem is that your mind is moving too quickly, making you afraid, which makes your mind move even quicker, making you even more afraid etc. - so you just need to try slowing it down, which will help you inhabit your own body a bit better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VagrantFarce View Post
    In all honesty - meditation, exercise or remembering to breathe slowly and calmly is all you need - body-based exercises. The problem is that your mind is moving too quickly, making you afraid, which makes your mind move even quicker, making you even more afraid etc. - so you just need to try slowing it down, which will help you inhabit your own body a bit better.
    the problem is just the opposite. I'm lethargic, apathetic and living in this exciting fantasy world that doesn't really exist. my mind is not moving too quickly, it needs a jump start, like something exciting and motivating to chase after
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I've been thinking about it, and I think I'm REALLY disintegrated.
    - I avoid facing reality like the plague
    - I am becoming increasingly condemning, harsh, critical and angry (stress 1, possibly unhealthy wing 8 tendencies)
    - I feel like there is this fog clouding my vision, keeping me from concentrating
    - my mind is never in the moment. I've almost lost the ability to focus on anything in the moment completely
    - histrionic and provocative
    does anyone have any advice?
    Elfboy, did you read this? http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...=1#post1809390 It relates pretty well on what you say.
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