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    Default Understand a damn enneagram 3!

    It bothers me to think about how people misunderstand 3's so much, peeps think we are fake and not genuine. That's some bullshit!!! I stay true to myself and really am genuine about everything I do and about everything i like, it's not a front. Thank you!!! I'm drunk right now and am venting don't mind me, it's just been bothering me you guys have the wrong idea about 3's. We just want to do the best we can at everything we do! Rawr!!!!!! Is that wrong!!?
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    Join the club.

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    You feel me <3! Damn I guess I am in a feisty mood right now lol... Rawr <3!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sparrow View Post
    You feel me <3! Damn I guess I am in a feisty mood right now lol... Rawr <3!
    Yes, people think my type is one of those overly moralistic and uptight people who think people shouldn't be drinking. They also think type 1's are killjoys.

    (see what I did there?)


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    According to Cool/Uncool thread, 1s and 3s are among the most misunderstood E-types. Go figure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cloud of Thunder View Post
    According to Cool/Uncool thread, 1s and 3s are among the most misunderstood E-types. Go figure.
    Funny thing is that healthy 3s are one of my favorites, and I like 1s.
    I don't see any invisible treasure chests.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Owfin View Post
    Funny thing is that healthy 3s are one of my favorites, and I like 1s.
    I think healthy 3s can easily combine the best traits of 1s, 7s and 8s.

    Also, for the record, @Rail Tracer, one of my favoritest video game protagonists is a 1w9.
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    i like 3s. i see less "fake" and more an outer "gloss" that other people don't always get to see past. especially with 3w4s. you are proud to show the things you are and stand for but carefully hide what you don't want people to see. which is true for most of us to a certain extent, but 3s most of all.

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    The OP needs to take some pharmaceutical grade fish oil. Moody.

    It is great to be a good person, and such behavior should be complimented.

    I noticed with a 3 I know that he would rarely admit to being wrong (especially when it would make him look bad) and all he would care about was winning, time, and tradition. His moral barometer seemed to be nowhere, though he found himself high ground to judge everyone else. He was very much a perfectionist.

    I like threes when they are healthy and moral, because they are go-getters and they push the edge of the envelope and go to great lengths to accomplish amazing things. Well, perhaps not always amazing, but they value external awards and accolades and need that validation to feel like someone in life.

    Their "plasticiness" and the fact that they unabashedly lie and hide facets of their true personality in the name of success is very annoying. Also they can end up being ruthless and unethical just to go places in life. This is not a good thing. If they manage to avoid that, then we can all willingly bask in their list of amazing achievements.

    But I guess all you wanted was to vent, and get some emotional support and validation, correct?

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    I was drunk when I posted this!! I don't need validation or advice or anything lol . I feel kinda dumb for starting this thread actually.

    Fuck it, you can't win them all right!
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