all of the above describe me annoyingly too well... *grrr*... stay away from my unique embracing of my non-uniqueness...
- your self esteem has the best freaking defense in the world - every mistake and failure is another step forward in your self-seeking journey, every flaw in your character found is an awesome discovery, other people need to protect their esteem like a fortress, yours is a whore house inviting all the enemies in.
- sharing your unique thoughts is sort of like a dog taking an intellectual dump, you just need to get it out, it rarely matters how important is the place, as long as you know your leaving it where others can smell it and its all the better if it's where you've sensed the unique smell of others, preferably of the opposite sex (perhaps more so for the Extroverted SX/SO 4s).
- wanting to be helpful to others is actually a result of being unhealthy, and being a righteous prick is a result of being healthy, how screwed up is that? well, if your a 4, then you lavish in how screwed up that is, because your that much more special.
more specifically for 4w5 7w8 8w7s:
your 4's growth point is your 7s stress point, your main branch is your 7s growth point and your 8s stress point, your 8s growth point is your 4s stress point. try to get out of that entanglement.