I'm highly independent and curious. I enjoy being self sufficient and skeptical at times. I'm pretty much balanced, but my scores almost always tip in favor of INTP. But my cognitive functions test always suggest an INFP.
On another thread regarding sp/sx, I can agree on desiring for a connection with another. It just so rarely happens that I come across someone similar to me. But O' boy, when it does happen I want to communicate with that person whenever I get the chance (w/o seeming like an over zealous freak).
But, I'm usually fine by myself, doing most activities alone, and rarely do I feel lonely. I can get into a sense of remoteness when I spend a good deal of time without contact.
For me being 'social' just means going to the grocery store or a coffee shop and being among/around people. I'll make random comments and instigate small talk to people if I find something about them or their behavior interesting.
When I get my fill of being public, I go back to my cozy home and feel more complete and balanced. Rinse & repeat, when the need arises.
Can anyone relate at all?