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    Yeah, I can fly. Aleksei's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
    Guess I'm looking for a johari for 7s.

    You're actually looking for a Nohari for 7's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by InTheFlesh View Post
    1.Rationalizing everything to make them look like they did nothing wrong. One of my best friends does this and it makes me want to hit him with a golf club.
    How does he do this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksei View Post
    You're actually looking for a Nohari for 7's.
    True dat.

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    I decided to go ahead and make one. Feel free to add it to the OP.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
    How does he do this?
    For example, if he offends someone and they bring it up, he makes it seem like since he doesn't hold emotions in conversations that others shouldn't either and tries to make them look bad for doing it.

    I'm really sorry if I offended you, I just have a lot of built up anger towards this particular 7. You seem much more aware and ahead of him on trying to work things out with people

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    Kickass Aleksei!

    Quote Originally Posted by InTheFlesh View Post
    I'm really sorry if I offended you, I just have a lot of built up anger towards this particular 7.
    Not offended in the slightest, t'was a question that came from curiosity, not emotion just want to understand how someone's behaviour seems from a non-7 pov.

    Share more perceptions if you have any.

    Is one of the issues that he's argumentative?

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    His arguing doesn't bother me if it's just for the sake of arguing, but it does annoy me when he can't admit that he's wrong which ends up being around 65% of the time

    I'm a particularly argumentative INFJ anyways

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
    I want to go deeper.
    Why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    Why?
    I think part of that can be put back on my ENTPness, I can't work well with something I don't understand, I have to pull it apart and see it for what it is before I can move forward.

    I learn about myself by evaluating myself. I'm not interested in only focusing on the positive, I like, and even thrive with negative criticism as it gives me something to work on improving, thing is if no one ever tells me, and I can't see it, then I'll never change.

    Forward movement is important to me, I can't be static.

    It can lead to unnecessary over analysis at times, but I like going deep cause if I fully understand something I won't need to go over it again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ragashree View Post
    Off the top of my head:

    1) Running away from stuff
    2) Evading responsibility
    3) Being scared of comittment
    4) Avoidant behaviour
    5) Not facing up to things
    6) Thinking the grass is always greener
    7) Being irresolute
    8) Fobbing people off
    9) Making excuses for failings
    10) Not following through

    Or are these ten different ways of describing one gigantic type 7 issue?
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    Quote Originally Posted by InTheFlesh View Post
    1.Rationalizing everything to make them look like they did nothing wrong. One of my best friends does this and it makes me want to hit him with a golf club.

    2.Ignoring everyones feelings and emotions in generall. He also does this and in turn he causes people to hate him or think he's a jerk.

    3.Having a tendency to think they're better than everyone else. Most 7's I know really need to learn how to keep their ego in check
    These are narcissistic tendencies which I also associate with unhealthy 7s. I have very limited (read no) IRL experience with healthy 7s. I honestly don't see any of this being relevant to you though, Trin.
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