[Other/Multiple Enneatypes] 2 vs 3 Observation of fakeness

[SUPER]

3s are fake all the time. They're so fake they can't even realize it. Even in private with them, they're still putting up a big act.

2s can be fake as well. But when in private, let their guard down. Put on the over-friendly mask when in public. They know if they're being fake. Seems like there is 2 sides to 2's. The private 2 and the public 2.

 

[lookingglassworld]

My husband's a 2. I've observed the public and the private side of him. You can definitely tell the difference!!

 

[syndatha]

I don't think you're respectful here. How about an observation of politeness?
I also think you may have missed something about healthy/unhealthy types.

 

[jcloudz]

if your demeanor gets in the way of you helping than you have to adjust yourself to work through any complications. so we are not being fake because we are still aligned with our initial purpose. y ea, i do put on different faces when i have to. everyone does, this is something that is not limited to specific E-types though.

 

[Elfboy]

2s are fake for the sake of love, belonging, admiration and acceptance; 3s are fake for the sake of "high marks". 3s view everything as a score board that they are trying to max out, and this extends to people's opinions, at least those they deem important (this tendency will be less noticeable with 3w4s and 3s who are Sp dom)

 

[jcloudz]

2s are fake for the sake of love, belonging, admiration and acceptance; 3s are fake for the sake of "high marks". 3s view everything as a score board that they are trying to max out, and this extends to people's opinions, at least those they deem important (this tendency will be less noticeable with 3w4s and 3s who are Sp dom)

just to clear some things up,

this is me but i have no issue with breaking necks and making people hate me, if there is some kind of injustice or someone is being used as a scapegoat. pretty protective of the people i love, innocent and vulnerable. like children or elderly.

so belonging, admiration, acceptance will take a back seat or go completely out the window, and i have no issues with it if someone breaks my little code of ethics.

one more thing, depending how strongly someone is narcissistic, if they are moderately high, maybe highly narc

I will intentionally make them hate me!!! , there is a certain level that i can tolerate.



unless you contribute unwittingly in someway to the overall quality of life.


i had enough negative experiences with self absorbed people to not want anything to do with them in my life.

many people think im a doormat cause im nice, as for that?

 

[Haven]

[MENTION=8457]yakimadude[/MENTION]

ah yes, making others hate you, I see the martyr tendency is alive and well in you

 

[Winds of Thor]

I'm being fake right now. Like, 'you're being an ass'. See how fake I am.