Of course this can cause you to be slower in warming up to people, or maybe I'm speaking for myself, but odds are you're worth taking the time to get to know. It's like those god awful vacuum sealed cases they keep Games in after you just buy them, yeah they're difficult to open with out scissors, or using your teeth, but you usually forget about them once you get to the game.
Thats it! The perfect way to describe a 4w5 INTJ! "You know how on Christmas morning parents experience wrapper rage trying to open presents for the kids but once the toys are opened and the kids are running around gleefully they feel happier? Thats what you experience with 4w5 INTJ. Once you get the wrapper open, you'll be glad you spent all that time."
Originally Posted by Thursday
Yes - alone everywhere i go
~...the very same thing that tears me apart keeps me together
i sink into myself without effort
Yes-alone lonely everywhere i go, never lonely alone.
Being a 4 is difficult. Its like having a deep, deep craving for contact, for someone to reaaaallly understand me... but doubting that anyone ever will. I'm afraid that if someone actually sees the crazy chaos that goes on inside of me they'll freak out and run away, away, away. That they won't be able to understand my need to delve as deeply into the hurt as I can before I can make sense of it and come to terms with it... and that I may sometimes revisit the pain just to make sure that my interpretation of it hasn't changed since last time we visited together.
I am a 4, and I am glad that I feel all that I feel. I just wish that I didn't feel so... lonely.