I feel for you, since we only know what we percieve I can see you have yet to find love that has not hurt you nor been with someone who values experience whether it succeeds or fails. I know several 4s and my heart goes out for them. These are the people I will let beat me in a game of wit and they will never know for their happyness and the smile on thier face is all that matters. I will put their thoughts into action for the enjoyment of being with them whether I think they are right or wrong. These are the most confident people, yet when they open up you can see them bleeding. These are the people who just want someone to love them for who they are, to be able to give their heart without fear of having it stepped on.
Ahhhh type Four loneliness...There's nothing like it... At least, that's what the type Fours would say...
Advice to fours : Look beyond yourself and don't take things too personally. In the end it won't matter what people thought of you or what identity you constructed, but whether you served your objective and made what you could out of life. Oh, and, also, don't take life too seriously.
Said by a Four who has taken life, and herself, too seriously many a time.
'We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give' - Winston Churchill
That comes as no surprise. I've never thought you seemed very ESFJ-ish.
You sure you're not an N?
Lmao .. Funny that i just came across this and you are asking me a question .. Must be fate/coincidence/random nothingness
I am apparently an ESFJ .. that is what the tests say anyway.
I am not a 4 anymore .. I am 2w1 .. Now that makes sense. I was just in a very sad place when i took that test.
“I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe