Gut (Relationship value: Conflict resolution).
9w1s. I have my own 8 fix to deal with, which together with other 8 gut fixes is probably more likely to just escalate. When combined with 1s the dynamic is even worst IME, I react to hurt with anger, they react to anger with self righteousness, meaning they end up justifying whatever has hurt me in the first place. 9s on the other hand have the wonderful ability to disarm me, which is great, as long as I can still bring about whatever the problem was in a calmer more thoughtful state of mind later. 9w8s tend to do so more passive aggressively and will likely blow out later, it kind of feels like they are too afraid to go full 8 gut fix. 9w1s on the other hand will stand up to me when something I do bothers them, which is important to me, and will do so in a calm and more principled manner.
Heart (Relationship value: Unknown).
This one I am struggling with the most, and the least certain about. All heart fixes are dishonest with themselves in some manner, it's what shame is about in the first place. 2s about why they do what they do "for others", and in this context I happen to be others. 3s care more about the image you have of them then about you, 4s generate the miss attribution error to themselves faster then a Toyota factory production line. I really don't know.
Head (Relationship value: Brainstorming).
5w6s. This time not due to a process of elimination, 7s are a bit too close to home but 6w5s and 6w7s can be awesome people. I just prefer 5w6s, possibly because they represent my growth point, but I have an overall positive experience, with some of the best mind melding conversations in my life going on between me and 5w6s. IME 5w4s prefer using their accumulated information to exclude themselves from the flock, while 5w6s tend to try to use it to prove themselves worthy of it, meaning the 5w4s tend to be critical of society as if distanced from itself while the 5w6s will have observations on society as it applies to the self.