So Nihilogen gave me an idea a while ago, and it made me say to myself.... "fucking bingo".
This shit is literally spot on.

Values when interacting-What satisfiesYOUemotionally-How do you approach the world-Values when interacting
8 9 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 1

Ask yourself what you spend the most time doing.

This makes enneatyping as easy as taking a shit.