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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    Probably because 8's like being treated like human beings, a concept that is completely foreign to you.
    How is this even remotely related to the OP?

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    Double Post

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tem View Post
    How is this even remotely related to the OP?
    More than you have been made aware.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tem View Post
    How is this even remotely related to the OP?
    Answer me these questions, you should know this:

    Why do 8's like having their energy met?

    Why do 8's get irritated when people cannot meet their energy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    More than you have been made aware.
    The guy is making a thread voicing genuine concerns / frustrations; in your shoes I would have approached his content without subjective, personal backstory. He may have done something to you in the past but this is now and you should approach the current situation with objectivity.

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    Why do 8's like having their energy met?

    Why do 8's get irritated when people cannot meet their energy?
    In my experience, it's frustrating to have no opposition. I like to know that I'm working with competent, strong people; when someone is quiet I take it as they are too afraid to speak up, even if they agree w me I want to hear feedback, interaction, communication.

    It's also about feeling respected, when something is important enough to me that I'm taking the time of day to pay attention toand deal with it, I want others to recognize and respect that .. If I am taking responsibility for taking care of things, y'all ain't gonna be slacking.

    What I DON'T like is when a situation is met with energy disproportionate to the situation ala emotionality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tem View Post
    The guy is making a thread voicing genuine concerns / frustrations; in your shoes I would have approached his content without subjective, personal backstory. He may have done something to you in the past but this is now and you should approach the current situation with objectivity.


    In my experience, it's frustrating to have no opposition. I like to know that I'm working with competent, strong people; when someone is quiet I take it as they are too afraid to speak up, even if they agree w me I want to hear feedback, interaction, communication.

    It's also about feeling respected, when something is important enough to me that I'm taking the time of day to pay attention toand deal with it, I want others to recognize and respect that .. If I am taking responsibility for taking care of things, y'all ain't gonna be slacking.

    What I DON'T like is when a situation is met with energy disproportionate to the situation ala emotionality.
    Are you here to save this poor soul from me? Are you the hero he's been dying for?

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    double post. delete not working @highlander

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    Are you here to save this poor soul from me? Are you the hero he's been dying for?
    Must be

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Flame View Post
    Are you here to save this poor soul from me? Are you the hero he's been dying for?
    Must be

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tem View Post
    I feel you on the difficulty in dealing with 8s, 8s can often be big babies. That being said, it's plain disrespectful to not approach someone because you don't want to take the time to deal with them. If this person is part of whatever it is you are doing, I would urge you to reconsider voicing your opinions and ideas to them.
    Of course I voice my opinions and ideas. That's actually part of the problem, usually - I voice them "too much" and piss them off. I'm a ENTJ 7w8 myself, not exactly the most tactful person in the world.
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