I've been trying to type an ESFJ, one of those ESFJs who gets Fe-Te-Ti-Si on cognitive function tests. The hyper-Js.
She is quite emotionally volatile and hypersensitive to others. She has this fear that her friends will leave her and fears their judgment. She is driven, has materialistic tendencies, describes herself as "overrationalizing everything" and hates when people tell her to ease up. She is a exceptionally caring and conscientious friend. She loves social interaction, loves and sometimes prioritizes sex, loves social convention (read: prom was a cluster fuck of tension for a solid month, already has her wedding planned, etc.) and climbing the ladder. She always prefers to be in control and wants to function as the concrete pillar in the middle of our shared circle of friends and can be pushy.
I have been completely unable to enneatype her. Anyone who can help would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to ask for elaboration.