EJCC
The Devil of TypoC
- Joined
- Aug 29, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ESTJ
- Enneagram
- 1w9
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
That really, really sounds social-last to me. I mean, isn't that practically the definition of the last instinct "blind spot"?Probably not...but I'm sort of half-there mentally when it comes to social-situations, so I rarely experience myself as part of a cohesive unit. At most, I'm a receptive participant.
Anyways, your previous post almost seemed to be assuming the non-existence of social-first and second people. Re: whether "everyone" is experiencing that discomfort -- from my knowledge of the social instinct, people who are well-versed in it should have a very good idea of who's uncomfortable and who isn't -- or at least, which sections and sub-sections of the group would be most likely to be uncomfortable. Based on that quick analysis you could decide which subgroup you choose to cater to.
Some of this could also be Fe. I tend to have a lot of Fe and social first/second friends, so this whole fuck-the-group mentality that some people have -- not Qlip, but others (going on an Ne semi-tangent here) -- is completely foreign to me, as is the assumption that "most people" wouldn't care about group atmosphere.