gotta represent for the 2w1 i guess!
as a sexual 2, i find it's most often expressed on an individual basis. when i see a need in someone, i get a lot of joy out of giving them something custom-tailored to them. like picking a movie i think they'll like, finding music that fits their taste, food prepared a special way, a certain kind of humor that i think will cheer them up. that kinda thing. i try to avoid over-the-top gestures usually. try to make it look as unintentional as i can, to like not cause embarrassment i guess.
a bit of a metaphor: i'm a winker. i wink at people (often not consciously, and sometimes in inappropriate situations) when i like want them to know i 'get' them, or want to like establish a special connection. i used to do it ALL the time when i was a waitress. wink at someone who asked for something, thinking like, "oh i know just what you mean, i'll get that for you, it's gonna be so good." or something. not always the best mode of communication with a man out with his girlfriend or something. but, the way i think of my 2-fix is exactly that. little winks at people. personal encouragements or little 'thinking of you' things that i do for others. i give a lot of reputation comments on here, and i feel like it's definitely related. i don't want to like broadcast it, i just wanna give a little wink on the DL.