I'm pretty balanced with wings but lean a little more toward 8.
-Support me when I slow down and stick with my commitments.
Not so much. I'm not even really sure what this means?
-Let me know what and how important your own needs and wants are.
This is a SUPER MUST! This is so necessary. I am almost always very responsive to the needs and wants of others close to me but you have to let me know in very clear language. My mind can go in all sorts of different directions with guessing and I can jump to some crazy conclusions.
-Encourage me to deal with pain, fear, and restlessness rather than escaping from these feelings.
I don't know about encourage. I guess it could mean being supportive when I am being brave to talk/deal with those things because it's a huge freaking deal.
-Help me keep things simple and in the present.
I need to do this for myself. I don't think anyone can really help with this.
-Stand your ground.
-Speak your own truth.
Please do. Wanna make me crazy? Duck, dodge, and spin.
-Provide feedback about my impact on you.
This too is very important and ties in with letting me know how important your wants and need are.
And remember that intensity and passion =/= anger. If I'm angry, I will have no problem telling you (and it passes quickly too! )
-Support me when I reveal softer feelings and vulnerabilities.