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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanjuro View Post
    Oh yeah, I do type as sx/soc and am willing to discuss soc/sx. I'm neurotic as crap about both of those things, but the sx feels worse. I'm not as awesome as sx/socials are supposed to be, though
    My first impression is that you're so dom.

    I think it's cause I don't see you being as self revealing as an sx dom. They don't hold back really.

    That and you seem to cater your wording like an so dom. IMO

    Like you say that you like the interaction...but without you saying it...I wouldn't have known.

    The intensity does not ooze out of your posts.

    Like I said though...just my first impression.

    I just think your posts are well put together. Like you gave it a little bit of extra thought before typing. Very similar to Skylights. Her posts are very well written, she gets to the heart of the matter, but does it in an eloquent non revealing way. Hard to describe now that I think about it
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    Quote Originally Posted by Urarienev View Post
    My first impression is that you're so dom.

    I think it's cause I don't see you being as self revealing as an sx dom. They don't hold back really.

    That and you seem to cater your wording like an so dom. IMO

    Like you say that you like the interaction...but without you saying it...I wouldn't have known.

    The intensity does not ooze out of your posts.

    Like I said though...just my first impression.

    I just think your posts are well put together. Like you gave it a little bit of extra thought before typing. Very similar to Skylights. Her posts are very well written, she gets to the heart of the matter, but does it in an eloquent non revealing way. Hard to describe now that I think about it
    To be honest, I don't believe in vibe-typing. But I thank you for your perspective.

    On past message boards, I've actually gotten in trouble for revealing too much; hence my reserve here. There was much fallout, and some things don't need to be said.

    Thanks for saying my posts are well-written, btw.

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    I might be 8 fixed. Just lil things I notice like at work when the other two girls are like all panicky and don't want to tell a client something or say no or anything where they have to enforce policy etc I just don't get it. I'm like ill handle it. Or I'll tell them.

    I just flat out don't care and get that it's a business and we have to run the show.

    I'm not shitty about it and I don't enjoy it but feel like it has to be done and don't mind being the one to do it. So whatever that means.
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    @Sanjuro

    I wouldn't consider myself a punk-ass bitch, exactly, but I agree with your overall sentiment. I think it's kinda shitty when someone bothers to type out a long reply and you just let it slide. You're not worthy of my time, it says. And I get excited from the interaction, mainly.

    Also, no, I'm not 9-fixed. Sorry if I gave you that impression. It's 8 all the way.
    Oh so you ARE 8 fixed then? Yeah, I was going to say that you seemed like more of an 8 fixer online. But, I didn't know if you were like that in real life as well?

    If it helps you, I am glad to.

    Yes, I'm an angry young woman. As soon as I leave my home, it's like an instant state of war (with the environment, not necessarily to peoples' faces, lol). I have, like, ZERO tolerance to frustration, and most of the world is incredibly frustrating. As I become less healthy, my environment becomes like a stage-prop, something simply to be gotten through as quickly as possible so I can get from point A to point B with minimal fuss. People who get in the way will generally be pushed--I'm physically aggressive more than I'm rude, combative, or mean.

    I'm volatile and quick to snap at people close to me--I'm known for being mercurial and tempermental, or, as my step-father believed, "criminally insane" (I'm not, I just openly express anything from annoyance to rage, then I get over it). I get physically angry too and sometimes destroy things. I've seldom been in fights outside the house largely because the world pisses me off significantly less than my own family, but again, I can be quite susceptible to frustration and things "in my way".
    Yeah I relate to what you are saying a lot actually. I also get pissed off and want to beat the shit out of people as well. Plus, I also commonly have to stop myself from breaking things as well. What has always confused me is that 9 fixers often times tell me that they don't really feel anger, but I feel it constantly. Which I find to be very weird. I wonder if a person with a 9w8 fix with a strong 8 wing can be like this?

    Well this sounds more like a 6 dynamic all the way. You've gotta be diplomatic to maintain your alliances, after all.
    Well this actually fits the description of a 639 tri-type better than it does a 638 tri-type.

    Possibly agree. I feel like I adapt to others more than I push them to adapt. I'm actually always slightly flattered when people change their sentiments to agree with me. I certainly don't expect that. I actually share Orange's ideas of people who try to "convert" you to their own little civilization--I'm anti-that and have fought many long hard battles over it.
    Using Fe comes natural and is often times just automatic for xxFJ's. However for ExTP's using Fe is just basically a tool in their arsenal.

    I'd be interested in where you got this information. It sounds like one of those myths that went around PerC to discourage folks from being 8s and/or 8-fixed. Most people really DON'T want to confront others (at least those of unknown quantities) but some types are considerably less likely to back down than others, and some types become more likely to do so when angry.

    Core 6s, regardless of their gut-fix, are hot-cold in their confrontation styles, and will puff up and back down--this is how you maintain your alliances after. You guys are natural statesmen.
    No, this information is not meant to discourage 8 fixers from thinking that they are 8 fixers. One of the ring leaders in trying to prove that the 8 fix is rarer than the White Siberian tiger is the user, "Boss" on personality cafe. Now don't get me wrong, she is one of the most knowledgeable people on enneagram theory that I know, but it's like she always thinks that people are full of shit when they say that they have an 8 fix. I don't think that the 8 fix is as common as people think that it is, but it's not that damn rare.

    Also my theory about 8w9's and 8w7's is correct. 8w9's have the 9 wing, so it makes them sometimes shy away from confrontation. However, 8w7 fixer's don't have this wing, so they almost never shy away from confrontation. This theory of 8w9 vs. 8w7 is widely accepted throughout the enneagram communities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanjuro View Post
    Oh yeah, I do type as sx/soc and am willing to discuss soc/sx. I'm neurotic as crap about both of those things, but the sx feels worse. I'm not as awesome as sx/socials are supposed to be, though
    Quote Originally Posted by Urarienev View Post
    My first impression is that you're so dom.

    I think it's cause I don't see you being as self revealing as an sx dom. They don't hold back really.

    That and you seem to cater your wording like an so dom. IMO

    Like you say that you like the interaction...but without you saying it...I wouldn't have known.

    The intensity does not ooze out of your posts.

    Like I said though...just my first impression.

    I just think your posts are well put together. Like you gave it a little bit of extra thought before typing. Very similar to Skylights. Her posts are very well written, she gets to the heart of the matter, but does it in an eloquent non revealing way. Hard to describe now that I think about it
    Yeah I could see that. Sanjuro says that she's a supposed sx dom that could care less about sex or the intensity of relationships, and somehow I have a hard time believing this. However, if Sanjuro was indeed a so/sx this would make sense. I say this because people can generally live without their second variant's needs being met but not their first. At least, not very long that is.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    I might be 8 fixed. Just lil things I notice like at work when the other two girls are like all panicky and don't want to tell a client something or say no or anything where they have to enforce policy etc I just don't get it. I'm like ill handle it. Or I'll tell them.

    I just flat out don't care and get that it's a business and we have to run the show.

    I'm not shitty about it and I don't enjoy it but feel like it has to be done and don't mind being the one to do it. So whatever that means.
    I think that you are confusing an 8 fix for Te that you have developed over time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    Yeah I could see that. Sanjuro says that she's a supposed sx dom that could care less about sex or the intensity of relationships, and somehow I have a hard time believing this. However, if Sanjuro was indeed a so/sx this would make sense. I say this because people can generally live without their second variant's needs being met but not their first. At least, not very long that is.



    I think that you are confusing an 8 fix for Te that you have developed over time.
    Hey yeah, maybe.
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    I don't really adapt to anyone, I just kinda do what i do regardless of the target

    I don't get why I even have to adapt

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    Hey yeah, maybe.
    I could potentially see you having a one fix though, but probably not. 8 fix is really almost out of the question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Great One View Post
    I could potentially see you having a one fix though, but probably not. 8 fix is really almost out of the question.
    I'm not sure of @Lady X 's fix, but I just see her being sx dom. They don't seem to shy away from much imo. There is definitely something that makes her look like she doesn't back down easily. I'm not sure that it's a 1 fix though
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