Hello, I am trying my damndest to figure out my enneagram variants and hopefully someone here can help me to figure them out. I think that I'm probably Sp/sx though. I am either a core 6 with a strong 7 wing, or a core 7 with a strong 6 wing, but they are very close. I also have a 3w2 and a 9w8 fix. Anyway, what I am going to do is list each one of the qualities that I have pertaining to Self preservation, social, and sexual, and you folks tell me what you think my variants are based on this survey.
-I constantly think about money and having enough money.
-I am constantly worried about my safety and staying out of danger.
-I constantly want more and more money, and it seems like I can never have enough.
-I am very concerned about my health, and it drives me crazy when I have any type of health problem at all.
-I am strongly aware of things that can hurt me.
Things to consider before saying that I have self-pres as my first or second stack
-I have been destitutely poor for a number of years and it has had a tremendous impact on me.
-I have no health insurance and it's driving me crazy.
-I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from violence so it's bound to make me look more self pres.
-I have a large amount of 6 influence.
-I feel strong connections with certain people and some I don't (especially women). When I first enter a room I'm almost like a human metal detector looking for the "special people" in a room and just discard everyone else. Often times I just find myself talking to only a few people or if I vibe well with a woman I will just sit and talk with her the whole time and pretty much neglect everyone else.
-I fall in love very easily and get very close to a certain girl very quickly. It's a wonderful feeling when I find that this happens with a girl. It feels so good that it is almost like a drug that I want more and more of. I can get very clingy if I vibe extremely well with a woman. It's like I want to constantly be with her and never want to let her go.
-I am very comfortable with affection and I generally go to bed with a new girl fairly quickly. It's like I could meet a girl and know her for two weeks and feel like I've known her my entire life.
-I am very aware of the chemistry between myself and others.
-I'm very obsessed with beauty and preserving my appearance. I am terrified of getting old.
Things to consider before saying that I have sexual first or second in my stack
-I do like to sleep with a fair amount of women.
-I'm afraid of commitment, but I believe it's because my mother hurt me very badly when I was younger. Watcher her and my father's divorce was very painful for me, so I know how bad a marriage can go, and it scares me.
-I'm very good at meeting new people and chatting with them.
-I love social prestige.
-I understand social networks very well (i.e. This person knows this person, and this person knows this person)
-I can play the political game if I have to, but I don't like to.
-I'm generally interested in what's going on in the world.
Things to consider before saying that that I social first of second in my stack
-I'm not fond of social networking and it's very difficult for me to work a room, however I'm very good at being the center of attention in a room. However, this could also be attributed to my 7w6 and 3w2 fixes.
-I'm not really concerned about how popular that I am with people.
-I sometimes may use social connections to get me what I want, but I feel no strong need to contribute to society or to be a part of a group.
-I enjoy going to social outings and am very extraverted, but there are few people that I actually click with well enough to talk to, but I can force myself to talk to them if need be.
Ok folks what do you think my variants are?