[Traditional Enneagram] Family Enneagram Types

[skylights]

Dad - INTP 5w6 sp/sx
Mom - ESFJ 2w1 sp/so
Brother - ISTP 9w8 sp/sx
Me - ENFP 6w7 so/sx

LOTS of sp in my family. Lots of 9 as well. We're fairly close as far as nuclear families go. Strong superego. Strong focus on education, compassion, hard work, good finances, and appreciation.

Other than that, I think my maternal grandma is an ISTJ 1w9 and my paternal grandparents are ISFP 4w3 and ESTJ 8w7.

 

[Stephano]

Mom - 6w5
Dad - 7w6
Grandma - 6w7

 

[OrangeAppled]

I definitely never got criticized for being cold. I was scolded for feeling rather than thinking, and was always reprimanded if I didn't keep my passions in check. It always felt like if I got too externally passionate about anything my parents would turn and look the other way until I stopped, until we could return to more civil discourse.

I was called "hostile" and "argumentative" then. It was not seen as "passion" and certainly not friendly warmth (which, let's be fair, it is not). The "cold" tag was more like "not extroverted" and "not Fe". This was mostly from my ESFJ grandma, ISFJ mom & ESFP sister. Other types didn't necessarily see me as a cold, but "warm" was not ascribed to be either. I was not a sweet, gentle child, even though well-behaved.

 

[Alea_iacta_est]

My family:
Mother - 6w7 ENTJ
Father - 5w6 ISTx
Maternal Grandfather - 5w4 INTJ (Don't know him that well though, my best guess)
Maternal Grandmother - 6w5 xNFJ
Paternal Grandfather - 8w? xSTx (no longer with us, so extremely hard to type)
Paternal Grandmother - 2w? xxFx (same)
Me: 3w4 - 5w4 - 8w7 sx/sp

Close Friends (More family than my living grandparents anyways):
xNTP 6w7
INTJ 1w9
ENFP 3w2
ESTP 7w8
IxTJ 5w6

 

[Standuble]

I was called "hostile" and "argumentative" then. It was not seen as "passion" and certainly not friendly warmth (which, let's be fair, it is not). The "cold" tag was more like "not extroverted" and "not Fe". This was mostly from my ESFJ grandma, ISFJ mom & ESFP sister. Other types didn't necessarily see me as a cold, but "warm" was not ascribed to be either. I was not a sweet, gentle child, even though well-behaved.

I had similar issues though admittedly I was never well behaved. Being considered rude, arrogant, selfish and an arsehole mostly. Had the family known about MBTI I would have likely received the "not-Fe" label too. My sister received similar negative treatment though she received different pabels. I think my mother is a two because she becomes critical, insulting and aggressive in a way I would imagine an unhealthy eight to be when she is under stress. I do consider my sister to be a four sometimes (she is an ISFP) but I cannot say for sure.

 

[bohemian]

As I am still as novice this is a guess.

my step dad:7w8 or 8w7
my mom: 2w3
my real dad: 3w2 or a 7
me: Maybe a 4w3, 6 or 9 sp/sx or so/sx
my grand mother: 4w5 or 5w4
my step brother(after me forcing him to take a test): 7w6 or 6w7 cp
great grand mother: 8w9 or 9w8 I think?

 

[Halla74]

My Dad is 8w7, without a doubt.
My Mom might be a type 9, or a 9w1, she is very much a peacemaker in the family.
I'm a 7w8.
My brother is likely a type 3, he is a perfectionist, but at a very unhealthy level in life...

 

[autumnandtherain]

Mom - INTP 5w4
Dad - ISxJ probably a 9, maybe a 6
Brother - ENTP 3 or 7
And I'm likely a 4w5 but not entirely sure.

 

[LadyLazarus]

Me:ISFP 9w8(9w8-4w3-6w7) sx/sp
Mom:ISFP cp6w7(6w7-8w7-4w3)sp/sx
Dad:ESFJ p6w5(6w5-3w2-1w2)so/sp
Younger Sister #1:ISTJ 1w9 (1w9-6w5-3w4)sp/so
Younger Sister #2:INFP 9w1(9w1-2w1-7w6)so/sx
Younger Brother:ENFP 7w6(7w6-3w4-9w8) sx/so

Paternal Grandfather:ESTJ 3w2(3w2-6w5-1w9)so/sp
Paternal Grandmother:ISFJ 2w3(2w3-1w2-6w5)so/sx
Maternal Grandmother:INFJ 1w2(1w2-6w7-2w1)so/sp
Maternal Grandfather: ESTP 8w7(8w7-7w8-3w2)sx/sp

Aunt:ESFJ 2w3(2w3-6w5-1w2)so/sp
Uncle #1:ESTJ 1w2(1w2-6w5-2w1)so/sp
Uncle #2:ESTP 7w8(7w8-9w8-3w2)sx/so
Uncle #3:ISTP cp6w5(cp6w5-9w8-3w4)sp/so

Too many people...

Everyone in my immediate family aside from my father seems to be a Fi user; no wonder we're not really all that much of a "touchy-feely" hugging, sort of bunch, I think it may be why Fe-doms tend to make me uncomfortable.

It also makes sense now why my ISTJ sister thinks we're all nuts and feels like we don't get her, being that we're all F's except for her.

Poor kid!

 

[Odi et Amo]

Mom (ESTJ) - 8w7 so/sx
Dad (ENFP) - 9w1 sx/sp
Older brother (INTP) - 9w1 sx/so
Older sister (ESFJ) - 6w7 sp/so
Older sister (ENFP) - 4w3 or 7w8 sx/sp
Me (INFJ) - 4w5 sx/sp
Younger brother (ESTJ) - 8w9 sp/so
That's as far as I have gotten enneatyping. Shit, it's a hell of a lot harder than JCF/MBTI typing.

 

[MWill]

I think a parental 1 could easily produce a child who's a 3 if they're not careful

 

[small.wonder]

Just updating this, as I've confirmed type with each of my immediate family members now and am working on extended.

Dad - 8w7, 7w8, 3w4, Sp/Sx
Mom - 2w3, 6w7, 1w2, Sp/Sx
Brother - 6w7, 2w1, 8w9, So/?
Me - 4w5, 5w4, 8w?, Sx/So


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Maternal Aunt - 7w6
Uncle - 6w5
Cousin - 1w9
Cousin (twin) - 3w2
Cousin (twin) - 2w3
Cousin - 9w?

 

[BlackCat]

Dad: 9w1 sp/so
Mom: 2w1 so/sx
Step mom: 8w7 so/sx

 

[Flâneuse]

dad : 6w7-2w3-9w8
mom: 4w5-6w7-8w9
me: 9w1-4w3-7w6
older brother: 5w6-3w4-1w9

Our personalities are wildly different. The most obvious similarity is that we're all pretty limbic rather than calm, but we have completely different methods of dealing with it.

Assuming e-type is influenced by someone's upbringing, I think I could have turned out to be a phobic 6, 4 So or 4 Sp in different circumstances.
Having a rather high-strung and easily hurt mother could be part of why I turned out to be a 9 - I felt the need to keep the peace to prevent her from getting upset. My parents were also fairly permissive and I felt pretty well-understood by my mom, so I didn't develop that much of an overtly rebellious streak or a sense that I was completely different from everyone else.

 

[EJCC]

Mom: 1w2 so/sx or so/sp (tritype 162 or 163)
- Her sister: 1w2 (tritype 125 or 126)
- Her brother: 7w6 or 6w7 probably (no idea re: tritype)

Dad: 5w6 so/sp or sp/so (tritype 513)
- His sister: 7w6 so/sx

Me: 1w2 so/sx (tritype 173)

 

[Kullervo]

Me: 6w5-4w5-1w9 sx/sp
Dad: 3w2-5w6-1w2 so/sp, absolute workaholic and history buff, organised as fuck.
Mum: 2w3-1w2-6w7 so/sx, very caring person, extremely social, also organised.
Brother: 8w7-7w8-2w3 so/sp, playboy

 

[1AuroraAngel1]

My Father
Tritype: (6w5, 1w9, 3w4)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/so

My Mother
Tritype: (1w2, 2w1, 6w5)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/so

Me
Tritype: (4w5, 5w4, 9w1)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/sx

My Sister
Tritype: (9w8, 2w3, 6w7)
Instinctual Subtype: so/sp

 

[small.wonder]

Just updating this, as I've confirmed type with each of my immediate family members now and am working on extended.

Dad - 8w7, 7w8, 3w4, Sp/Sx
Mom - 2w3, 6w7, 1w2, Sp/Sx
Brother - 6w7, 2w1, 8w9, So/?
Me - 4w5, 5w4, 8w?, Sx/So

I need to correct this, as I realized a few weeks ago that my Dad is 3w4, not 8w7 (though he still has it in his tritype). If you are interested in a breif overview of how I arrived at that conclusion, you can find it here.

 

[1AuroraAngel1]

I think I mistyped some of my family members, so I'm going to redo my previous post.

My Father
INTJ
Enneagram: Counterphobic 6w5? (Tritype 613?)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/so?

My Mother
ISFJ
Tritype: (2w1, 1w2, Phobic 6w5?)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/so

Me
INFP
Tritype: (4w5, 5w4, 9w1)
Instinctual Subtype: sp/sx

My Sister
ESTJ?
Enneagram:3w2 (Tritype 369?)
Instinctual Subtype: so/sp

 

[Redbone]

Mama was 2w3.
Daddy was 6w5 (ugh).

Oldest sister, 8w7...probably sp/sx
Middle sister, 7w6...likely sp/sx
Me, 4w3...definitely sp/sx

Odd how we are all sp/sx...don't know why. I do know that there was a lot of effort to "beat" the intensity out of all of us...with limited success.