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    Default Enneagram marriage statistics

    http://www.9types.com/writeup/enneagram_marriages.html

    I found this kind of interesting so I thought I'd share it. Opinions?

    Personally, I think there should be more 5/4 couples on here, but apparantly not i guess *confusion*
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    Introverted (I) 57.14% Extroverted (E) 42.86%
    Intuitive (N) 63.16% Sensing (S) 36.84%
    Thinking (T) 70.37% Feeling (F) 29.63%
    Perceiving (P) 56.61% Judging (J) 43.39%

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    Awesome data, thank you for digging this up!

    I am not very surprised by some of those red pairings. Despite theory, I have noticed a substantial amount of 8's paired with 9's (female or male)..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Huxley3112 View Post
    Awesome data, thank you for digging this up!

    I am not very surprised by some of those red pairings. Despite theory, I have noticed a substantial amount of 8's paired with 9's (female or male)..
    Yes that made me feel better (I'm 8 he is 9) but I can't say I'm surprised.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    also, forgot to put this in the OP, I was very surprised at the amount of m5/f2 relationships... 2's basic desire is to feel loved and 5s are famous for not showing emotion, how exactly would that work out? lol
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    Intuitive (N) 63.16% Sensing (S) 36.84%
    Thinking (T) 70.37% Feeling (F) 29.63%
    Perceiving (P) 56.61% Judging (J) 43.39%

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    Quote Originally Posted by acronach View Post
    also, forgot to put this in the OP, I was very surprised at the amount of m5/f2 relationships... 2's basic desire is to feel loved and 5s are famous for not showing emotion, how exactly would that work out? lol
    Why do you think the face a certain type/enneagram show the world is the one they show in private to the ones they love most?
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    I find the line of integration the most meaningful pattern in the chart.
    Interestingly, I am very attracted to e8's and 9's, which the data supports. No dice on the 3's.
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    Quote Originally Posted by acronach View Post
    http://www.9types.com/writeup/enneagram_marriages.html

    I found this kind of interesting so I thought I'd share it. Opinions?

    Personally, I think there should be more 5/4 couples on here, but apparantly not i guess *confusion*
    That is utterly fascinating.

    6M + 9F. Hmmmm.....

    I recall Katherine Chernick Fauvre saying that certain types were a natural match for each other.

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    I was always curious how a 2w3 and I would play out.
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    This is especially interesting:

    "People marry along a line of integration 38% more often than chance. For example, 7-1 and 3-6 marriages were common, as were male 2s-female 4s, male 3s-female 9s, and several other such combinations."

    I have wondered about this before. It seems it would be better for one person than another though.

    Example - integration lines go from 6 to 9 to 3 to 6 again. Disintegration lines go from 6 to 3 to 9 to six again. Integration goes towards healthy. Disintegration goes towards unhealthy.

    So, a 6 with a 9, could help drive the 6 to be more "healthy" as their partner falls directly into their line of integration. I have wondered if it is bad for the 9 though because the 6 is in the direction of their line of disintegration which goes more towards the unhealthy side. Could it be that a 3 is better for a 9 than a 6? Then would the 9 would not be as good for the 3?

    Edit: For those who don't know what I'm taking about with lines of integration/disintegration, look here:

    http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/intro.asp

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    Also 2w1.

    Pretty much any 2.
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