“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft
I think 7w6s are pretty cool in a way. They seem to me to be pretty fun and enjoyable to be around with, easygoing, and just a little insecure, which makes them all the more charming without being overbearing / challenging (a vibe I sometimes get from 7w8s, and especially from 8w7 - which, of all the types I know so far, would probably the hardest for me to get along with).
I relate definitely to 4w5s and of course 5w4s (having a pronounced w4, though I'm fairly certain I'm a 5), although I can see a tendency towards seclusion, overanalyzing, and possibly the greatest potential for general unhappiness. These people sometimes seem to be having a hard time in this wee little world of ours.
1 - 3 - 9 - and especially 6? No clear conception at all of what they actually are. Just can't picture a typical '1' or '6' in my mind.
I would have to say 9s are the most liked of all the types, 1s the least. 7s and especially 3s only like to think they're cool.
Thinkist: not optimist nor pessimist. I am primarily competent in the enneagram.
SX 9w1, SP 5w6, SP 3w4 | Split with the first two
Ti-Se-Si-Ni-Te-Fi-Ne-Fe. I'm always questioning this, particularly the Si.
Big 5/Global5/SLOAN: RCUEX
Worst type: 9. I like hanging out with them and talking to them in reality. But I wouldn't want to be known as one primarily since they don't appear to have as strong of an identity according to type descriptions. It's the only type I would have an aversion to adopting for myself.
Originally Posted by SuchIrony
I agree that type 9 can appear rather 'uncool' for not having as strong of an identity.
My core identity may not have much to it that can be quantified articulately, but my core identity is cool
ENFP: We put the Fi in Fire
Motivation: Dark Worker
Alignment: Chaotic Neutral
MTG Color: black/red
Male Archtype: King/Lover
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"I wish that I could be affected by any hate, but I can't, cuz I just get affected by the bank" Chamillionaire
In my experience, 7s and 3s. They can't help but be cool, they were the ones in school that were setting all of the trends, they are the ones that will never let themselves be bored. Other types can be cool, it's just not very high on the agenda for a lot of people/types.