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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    What does effusive mean?
    warm, engaging, somewhat flattering (think southern hospitality)
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    Quote Originally Posted by solipsists View Post
    they may make better muses than spouses.
    I have struggled with this for a long time.

    I will share a tweet that I wrote recently, which was a huge revelation for me, and required a lot of work on myself to get there.

    "I am more than an artist, muse, animal & dreamer. I am also a woman, human & friend. Now that I accept this, my heart cannot mislead me."


    ^ You touched on the heart of my deepest self-imposed struggle. (I also have chronic illness and life struggles, but I am referring to struggles within my psyche, enneagram and instinct related issues.) I have written many times before: I am a tornado, not a wife. I am a muse, not a wife. Etc. It is hard for very artistic, independently-minded folks, and apparently 4w5s, to come to terms with social expectations. But that doesn't mean we aren't human and can't love. It just takes the right kind of partner to understand this. And of course, it takes work on the part of both partners to self-improve and to improve together.
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    Fuck: 2w1, 2w3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Animal View Post
    I have struggled with this for a long time.

    I want to share with you a tweet that I wrote recently, which was a huge revelation for me, and required a lot of work on myself to get there.


    "I am more than an artist, muse, animal & dreamer. I am also a woman, human & friend. Now that I accept this, my heart cannot mislead me."
    I like it. (: I don't mean to pass judgment on all members of a given type or limit potential with expectation--we're dynamic beings with a lot of room and time for growth. That was sort of a bitter commentary on my part. (that said, I could go for a muse about now)

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    Quote Originally Posted by solipsists View Post
    I like it. (: I don't mean to pass judgment on all members of a given type or limit potential with expectation--we're dynamic beings with a lot of room and time for growth. That was sort of a bitter commentary on my part. (that said, I could go for a muse about now)
    In a sense you were right and I liked that you wrote that. It was the truth. No harm in stating truth based on experience. We all have our struggles and its interesting seeing that someone else observed it the same way I experienced it, but from the opposite angle.

    if you met a 4w5 who inspired you and managed to deal with their inner turmoil without being a complete basketcase , I imagine that you wouldnt "judge" them based on the behavior of others. It's just, how often does anyone meet a person who is self aware and reasonable? hhahaa.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Animal View Post
    In a sense you were right and I liked that you wrote that. It was the truth. No harm in stating truth based on experience. We all have our struggles and its interesting seeing that someone else observed it the same way I experienced it, but from the opposite angle.

    if you met a 4w5 who inspired you and managed to deal with their inner turmoil without being a complete basketcase , I imagine that you wouldnt "judge" them based on the behavior of others. It's just, how often does anyone meet a person who is self aware and reasonable? hhahaa.
    Interesting, I can't really imagine the thought process from the opposite perspective, though I've tried. I'm tempted to withhold that I practice creative writing from the next 4w5.

    I do take each new relationship as it comes, though. Type only very loosely indicates life experience and relationship potential. I'm still very fond of the 4w5 in question and consider it one of the most interesting E-types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starry View Post
    What does effusive mean?
    too friendly

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    Huh, I guess I wasn't exact on the meaning of the word "effusive", taking it to mean more like goofiness/unreserved. But it kinda works.

    Right, triads:

    Gut:
    Fornicate: 9w8
    Espouse: 8w9
    Jettison: 1w2

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    Lust: 7w8
    Love: 6w5
    Gravity: 5w6

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    The Altar: 2w3
    The Sheer Drop: 4w3 (incest is taboo for a reason)
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    instinctual variants:
    shag - sx/sp
    marry - sp/sx
    offspring (I can't really choose that, but whatever) - sp/so to minimize chances of a wild adolescence
    buddy - so/sx
    cliff - so/sp
    shag and then throw off a cliff - sx/so

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Screw: sx-dom; 8w7, 5w6, 3w2, 4w3, 2w3; 874, 854, 278.
    Marry: sp-sx, sx-sp; 8w9,9w8,3w4; 835, 935, 872
    Cliff: so-sp, sp-so; 6w5, 7w8, 612, 638, 648,629
    @Amargith --

    IGNORE, apparently: 5w4 sx-sp

    Full Disclosure: yeah, I *know* it wasn't an exhaustive list.
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