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    Quote Originally Posted by brainheart View Post
    Instinctual variant is supposed to be the most obvious and important thing as far as motivations go and I still have no clue. None of them jump out at me, screaming, "Ah! Totally me!"

    I guess social is probably least, but I blow at the making money thing. Maybe its the frustrated idealist talking, but I have a hard time settling for anything but the perfect job. Does that mean I'm sp first?

    1. My romantic and closest friends are very important to me but I guard my time alone with a passion. I get overwhelmed by others very easily, unless...

    2. I feel a strong connection to them, an energy from them, then I come on really strong. But I can't imagine wanting to be around that person all the time. Still, I find attraction very stimulating and exciting. Being abandoned or ignored by that person makes me go completely crazy. But once our relationship is secure, I'm pretty chill and perfectly happy to communicate/be together more sporadically. But I really like/feel the need for intimate relationships.

    3. I can't help but think how my actions affect others, the planet. I'm not exactly out there saving the world (not at all, actually) but I buy humane eggs, eat organic, recycle, etc for both my health and everyone else's, sign amnesty international petitions, etc. I try to live by the adage treat others as I would like to be treated. Living in a cage sounds like the worst possible nightmare to me, so I can't imagine it's pleasant for a chicken either, for example. I like the idea of everyone respecting every living thing's autonomy and individual self-worth. (i guess that sounds sp-ish, doesn't it?)
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    LOVE THE SP SONG

    LOVE THE 8, 9, 7, 5 and 2 songs! Good info in the vids too.

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    I relate a lot to sp-dom video.. but ... ithink instinctual variants change over life time because i know that i changed them couple of times already.. and lately i care much more for other people even if i dont have personal benefit from it (integration to 6 from 3 as well?) etc.. and i used to be crazy attached to my friends and every few weeks and months i meet someone who becomes the central part of my life and we are "us" (even friends) (sx??) but lately it makes less secure feeling to me and i am more secure as SP dom, which is more a defense mechanism or something I dont know... there is definately something to instincsts... but i think it's 90% learned.

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    The Sx/Sp and Sp/Sx resonates with me....

    I see the Sx/Sp insctinct as 4ish by itslef. And the 4 by itslef too can look like the Sx/Sp

    I've pictured the stackings as E types

    Sp/So: 6ish/9ish
    Sp/Sx: 5ish
    Sx/Sp: 4ish/7ish and 5ish (sometimes)
    Sx/So: 8ish/2ish
    So/Sp: 1ish/3ish
    So/Sx: 7ish/2ish/9ish (sometimes)


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    Quote Originally Posted by Richardsen View Post
    The Sx/Sp and Sp/Sx resonates with me....

    I see the Sx/Sp insctinct as 4ish by itslef. And the 4 by itslef too can look like the Sx/Sp

    I've pictured the stackings as E types

    Sp/So: 6ish/9ish
    Sp/Sx: 5ish
    Sx/Sp: 4ish/7ish and 5ish (sometimes)
    Sx/So: 8ish/2ish
    So/Sp: 1ish/3ish
    So/Sx: 7ish/2ish/9ish (sometimes)
    I sorta see
    So/Sp: 1w2, 3w2
    So/Sx: 2w1, 2w3, 6w7, 7w6
    Sp/So: 5w6, 6w5, 1w9, 9w8
    Sp/Sx: 3w4, 5w4, 9w1
    Sx/Sp: 4w5, 8w9
    Sx/So: 4w3, 7w8, 8w7
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    I sorta see
    So/Sp: 1w2, 3w2
    So/Sx: 2w1, 2w3, 6w7, 7w6
    Sp/So: 5w6, 6w5, 1w9, 9w8
    Sp/Sx: 3w4, 5w4, 9w1
    Sx/Sp: 4w5, 8w9
    Sx/So: 4w3, 7w8, 8w7
    Yeah...
    The Sx/So is 2ish but I aggree


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    Quote Originally Posted by Richardsen View Post
    Yeah...
    The Sx/So is 2ish but I aggree
    2 is more social to me. they want everyone to be a big happy family, some types like 6w7, 8w7, 9w1 I can see being just about anything
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    Sunburst!
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    "I wish that I could be affected by any hate, but I can't, cuz I just get affected by the bank" Chamillionaire

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elfboy View Post
    2 is more social to me. they want everyone to be a big happy family, some types like 6w7, 8w7, 9w1 I can see being just about anything
    Well I see that too.
    But to me still seems 2ish specially with the intimates ones.
    btw... Sp/Sx 2 shit!!!... what an odd combination


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    @Elfboy and @Richardsen,

    All you are going to do is confuse the hell out of people and make them assume they are a certain instinctual variant based on their type when that's not how it works at all.

    What's the point?

    (this really makes me take your typing of me with a pretty gigantic grain of salt.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chloe View Post
    ... ithink instinctual variants change over life time because i know that i changed them couple of times already.. there is definately something to instincsts... but i think it's 90% learned.
    I agree.

    At different times, in different situations, I notice my various instincts working. All of them have gotten out of control at different times, all of then have worked at different times, and all of them have failed at different times. As I've matured, I've learned to work with them better. But they're all still not perfect. None of them stand out as something I'm obsessed about. So...?

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