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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    And Shortnsweet, I am also 7w6, 4w5, 9w8. The 9w8 was very telling, because I do think I have issues with unexpressed anger. I wish I were an 8 and could just yell at people.
    Ahem. Not all 8's yell. Some of us lower our voices when srsly angered!

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    You're really letting out your 7 there, sweety

    I don't mind the description. I'm 4w5 9w1 7w6, and I'm used to being underestimated. I *can* be very gentle. And, yes, I have a sensitive soul. So in that respect, the description fits. I also find that people don't see me coming when that volcano inside bursts or when I amp up the intensity every so slowly and charm their pants off. Some of my closest friends have seen me burst and some of them are genuinly scared/intimidated by me when they recognize that process in me.

    One of them is my best friend from college, a male INFP. He loves me to pieces, but when my 4 goes nuts and I get that little look, and start charming, he almost instinctively braises himself while going 'oh god' and steps aside as much as he can. The reaction is about 10 times worse when I swing the other way and do blow a gasket about something. In fact, when I let my 7 out of its cage, he gets out of the way as well, as the bouncing off the walls makes him incredibly nervous. Come to think of it... I have no clue why that man tolerates me Guess he likes my 9 and my w5
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenaphor View Post
    Ahem. Not all 8's yell. Some of us lower our voices when srsly angered!
    My mom does that. That's about 10x scarier and worse
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vala Faye View Post
    My mom does that. That's about 10x scarier and worse
    That's cause we mean business when that happens. No goofing around, you've hit the wall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenaphor View Post
    That's cause we mean business when that happens. No goofing around, you've hit the wall.


    It was a sign my mom was barely controlling her anger and at the end of her patience. As an ISFJ, she had oodles of it, so that kinda..was scary as shit

    I tend to yell at people first (after doing the understanding/compromising thing). If people don't respond then, I get that way myself. If they push it further, I just go Ice Queen on them, and there's almost no coming back from that.
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    *pets the gentle spirit in CzeCze* so gentle, so spirity, so cute.
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    Bad ass equals I will defend any living thing because I always recognize the innate goodness within that others don't necessarily seem to see.

    As wolfy points out, being gentle can be revolutionary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CzeCze View Post
    But hooooooooow? How are we bad ass?
    Adaptability. And what brainheat said.

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    Am I the only one in this thread who has never been referred to as a "gentle spirit" in real life?
    06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
    06/13 10:51:08 shortnsweet: no you!!
    06/13 10:51:12 shortnsweet: go do your things and my things too!
    06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
    06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
    06/13 10:51:57 shortnsweet: (cries)
    06/13 10:52:19 RiftsWRX: You two are like furbies stuck in a shoe box

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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    Am I the only one in this thread who has never been referred to as a "gentle spirit" in real life?
    Ha ha, no. who calls anyone a 'gentle spirit'?

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