Other than that I think it causes a premature finality and stops progress or at least slows it down by sugar coating and difusing things in the moment that will probably be revisited in the future.
I personally need to put up boundaries and give myself time to process when in the midst of a conflict because otherwise I tend to allow my own needs to dissolve under the onslaught of the other person's feelings, even if I'm the injured party. Sometimes forcing someone to fully hash things out prematurely will do more damage to the relationship in the long run than you'd think, depending on what functions the parties involved prefer.
More on topic, I'm e5 and my least preferred function to use is Si.
I am a 7 and find everything hilarious. Everything that is limiting to me finding things hilarious I dislike. I dont understand the hate towards Fe, because I fail to get the logical sense behind it. I doubt there is one.
I accept versatility and the 6 wing is loyal to the people I think are wise and good at heart. I like people with a questioning nature, who do understand the philosophy that there are no absolute answers and that everything is relative and open-ended.
"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray
I'm a 4w5, and the function that gets to be tossed in my vomit bucket is Fe. Being excessively driven by authenticity, I sometimes see fakeness where there is none. I'm aware that I shouldn't, but I keep associating Fe with "programmed behavior". Fe strikes me as unnatural, forced. I feel like using Fe deprives people from their identity. Don't "aww" at animals, clap your hands at a concert, shuggercoat the truth to protect people's feelings(what I call an excess of tact), cry at rememberance day and indulge in social niceties just because you've "learned" that this is "appropriate" behavior(or what is socially accepted as appropriate behavior). If you do those things out of your honest heart, good for you. If not, the store of self-respect is just nearby, for your information. They sell all kinds of things like subjectivity, opinions, tastes. Flavors of authenticity, impuslivity and Natural are greatly recommanded. Everyone is different, and there's no way I beleive that the concept of "average, normes" exist in terms of Natural Reactions. De-program yourself for the love of cuccumbers!
Si, Se and Te have given me hell in the past and present, but at least I can see their importance. In contrast, I really have to screw with my head to beleive in the usefulness of Fe.
My 9 is too diplomatic to single any one out so my 5 pipes up with this
Originally Posted by JocktheMotie
I'm a 5 and I hate everybody.
I got my smile from the sunshine,
I got my tears from the rain.
I learned to dance when I saw a tiger prance,
And a peacock taught me to be vain.
A little owl in a tree so high,
He taught me how to wink my eye.
I learned to bill and coo from a turtledove,
And a grizzly bear taught me how to hug.
But the guy that lived two caves from me,
He taught me how to love.
If you 'hate' a function, you're not understanding it correctly
Hatred stems from close-mindedness and the belief that you are superior. Sorry, boring answer, but I really, really believe that you should just admire the qualities in other people that you don't have.