so, i'm begging for help cause even after months of studying the enneagram, i really still don't have a feel on what type i am. i've thought i was a 4, 3, 6, and 7, in that order of progression. i also tried to get my brother (5w4, insightful kid) to type me, but he said that he could see little bits and pieces in a lot of them, but nothing clear.
top contenders: 7w6, 4w3, 6w7, 9w1
i am not: 8
i think that i am either in the thinking or feeling triad. probably thinking if i had to choose (weird for an F to say?). sp is definitely last in my instinctual stacking, but i'm not sure whether sx or so is first. seems like it would depend on which number i turn out to be... i figure if i was a 7 i'd be sx but if i was a 4 i'd be so. if i could make up types i would be a 7w4w3. i would like to say i'm a 3 but i don't think i am.
i identify very much with ENFP but only marginally with any enneatype. like i said, 7 and 4 seem closest, but 7 seems too not deep (maybe accountable for via sx?) and 4 seems too dark (maybe accountable for via so?).
anyway... that's about all i can think of. if you guys have any guidance it would be appreciated