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    this is my winter song EJCC's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nihilogen View Post
    @EJCC Is there even a way to give an insulting compliment to a 1?
    I think for me it comes down to:

    1) Backhanded/intentionally insulting complimenting (including the sarcastic ones that @wolfy mentioned), and
    2) Excruciatingly lazy and/or boring complimenting.

    The latter may be related to type 1, since I find the laziness and ignorance behind it to be insulting. "It's not THAT hard, so do it right!" Like when school friends used to give me Bath and Body Works products for my birthday, just because since I'm a girl, I MUST like Bath and Body Works. Happened almost every year, and I never used the stuff. Wow, I'm getting annoyed just thinking about it
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    Like when school friends used to give me Bath and Body Works products for my birthday, just because since I'm a girl, I MUST like Bath and Body Works. Happened almost every year, and I never used the stuff. Wow, I'm getting annoyed just thinking about it
    The token gift. Reminds me to never do that.
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    Compliments when I am down, if it's something about me as a person. They seem like the person is only trying to cheer me up, if they know I am sad, and that makes me even more down.

    Them: "You're so smart!"
    My thoughts: "No I'm not. I'm stupid. Don't lie to me."

    The other kind that irks me is when someone comments on how calm I am.

    Them: "You're such a relaxed person, you seem so chill"
    My thoughts: "hah. why don't you step inside my head for a minute, then you can decide."

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    I feel almost impartially judged for having a natural quirky quick witted mind. When people say this to me as if they don't know what to say because I made them uncomfortable with my out of reality/box thinking.
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