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    Default Enneagram and Romantic Pairing

    Do you think there are complimentary pairs? For example, is is likely that an 8 and a 2 will end up together because the other person is in the direction of the integration/disintigration arrows?

    Is it healthy to have such a pairing? Let's take the 8 and the 2. Is is good for the 8 (because 2 is a good direction) and bad for the 2 (because 8 is a bad direction).

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    I made a very similar topic before a few months.
    So here is what people said about this.


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    5w4 seems to work the best with me. I like a guy who's got a hidden romantic side, but is brainy. Type 4s.. if they have a 5 wing, it'll work too. I love romanticism, and if a guy is kind of philosophical and artistic, it's attractive. Just as long as he isn't too off the beaten path. Sometimes I find myself fatally attracted to 2s. Not sure about type 1's, cos I've never dated them, but I think a 1w2 would work. 3w4's can be attractive too... kind of classy and ambitious types of guys. If I'm looking for someone powerful, I like 8s.
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    Here more abut all possble combinations and how they work.


    Enneagram compatibility

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    Here more abut all possble combinations and how they work.


    Enneagram compatibility
    Hey, that's pretty good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    Here more abut all possble combinations and how they work.


    Enneagram compatibility
    yeah i've seen this. it is pretty good. wish there were some good info on mbti compatability besides the socionics thing. i don't really think it's very good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    wish there were some good info on mbti compatability besides the socionics thing. i don't really think it's very good.
    I agree

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    I'm a 6 work best with ones and the gut traid-ers in general.

    In terms of pure chemistry, sx/sp NT 5's FOR SURE. But it never works out. They turn out being really bad for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antisocial one View Post
    Here more abut all possble combinations and how they work.


    Enneagram compatibility
    you know... i never really tried to enneagram type people i know... but i realized reading this that my ex was an enneagram 4 just like me. our relationship was exactly as it described a double 4 relationship to be. no wonder we kept coming back to each other even though it was obvious the relationship wouldn't work. ::sigh::
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