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    Senior Member the state i am in's Avatar
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    my imagination argues that my ideal type is 7w6 so/sx and/or sx/so. i also like 7w8 so/sx types i think. so refreshing, so decisive, so shhhhhhhhh, you're being too much. personal responsibility, etc.

    the withdrawn types, of course, i just get. i'm not sure how it would work romantically with a 4w5. i have a lot of friends of this type. i met a french 4w5 infp sx/sp girl who stirred me up quite intensely. so challenging, so bold, so decisive, so committed. i have more immediate chemistry with 9w1s tho, their emotional generosity, like 7w6s, helps get me going, like a kite that needs some momentum to get off the ground. the glow is unique, and my place in their emotional thought bubble i recognize, see, appreciate, my little space so endearing to them in their cartoon. 4w5 is more of an aesthetic connection, less directly affirming but, at the same time, a sense of agreement that this is what life is about, that this is what we've been chasing after for all this goddamned time. real! authentic! purpose! the unique self! conflict! ahhhhhh, it feels great.

    not necessarily romantically, but i have a strange sympatico symbiotic feeling with 1w2 especially so/sx. the sense of humor overlaps, the boundaries are perfectly inappropriate in an exacting way, the absurdity of life is fair game and nothing is too dark. oh you lowly people, might we mock you for just a moment? including ourselves. the same critical process, just focused on practical reason vs theoretical reason. i could use some grounding, some ethical solidity, some standards. not just that ever-elusive knowledge.

    as an sx/sp, so/sx is just relaxing. i had a conversation with an entp 7w8 sx/so today for 3 hours, and it made me tired afterwards (bc i felt like i was playing poker with michael jordan all night and neither of us would quit). it's great, and for a moment i believed we might solve the riddles of the sphinx and all other social problems, but balance. balance!

    3w4 intrigues me. but sometimes the polarities get fucked up and it's all repulsion and the sense of meanness terrifies me in both directions of this two-way street. i've had one internal combustion in this array before. sorry, you. afraid, but sincere, but guarded, but in your way. i see it in you too.

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    I think I fare best with 9w1.
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    4w5 sx/sp with a 5w4 (either sx/sp or sp/sx.......he seems such a mix of both those two)

    melikey :-) I have to say, for the sane ones, I sure love them fives

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    I'm 4w5 and I'm with a 6. Everything is great as long as you have fun according to the rules. The mindest really reminds me of Monica from Friends: 'Rules help control the fun!'

    Other than that, it's good. I enjoy having someone around who thinks about practical things. As long as thing stay the right side of bossy, we have a lot of fun.
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
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    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edasich View Post
    4w5 sx/sp with a 5w4 (either sx/sp or sp/sx.......he seems such a mix of both those two)

    melikey :-) I have to say, for the sane ones, I sure love them fives
    sounds like my ideal relationship...

    after reading the list of pairings, i was most fond of the romantic pairing of a 4 with a 5.
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    I only know flawed people who are still worth loving."
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    Am a 4 currently paired with a 7. It would seem opposites attract sometimes. We certainly give each other a lot to think about.

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    7's could be real fun to be with! Now that you guys mention it, 6 could be pretty cool too. I gotta admit, I'm afraid of the communication errors between enneagram types, more so than with MBTI. Some things people get anxious over I think are just silly. I couldn't even imagine what it'll be like dating someone like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by animenagai View Post
    Some things people get anxious over I think are just silly. I couldn't even imagine what it'll be like dating someone like that.
    Let me give you a little insight:

    6 appears to be needlessly neurotic in my eyes. To 6, my ephemeral, ethereal 4ness is simply too much to consume: there is a strong desire to regulate my capricious nature because there is the perceived risk that a problem may one day arise to which I will have no answer. 6s seem to have a little difficulty in "just letting go" because they seem intent on planning as far ahead as possible. I, personally, cannot plan for any longer than about 6 months - to me, there's little point, since everything could change tomorrow; life is in constant flux.

    The key is negotiating the over-regulation of the 6 (towards the 4) and the 4's desire to daydream and forget about the boring details of life. If it's possible to meet in the middle, then I think it would be a good pairing.

    N.B. This 6 is also an ENFJ so, theoretically, an ENFP + ENFJ match-up may result in fewer Fi/Fe clashes...
    That girls are raped, that two boys knife a third,
    Were axioms to him, who'd never heard
    Of any world where promises were kept,
    Or one could weep because another wept.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adasta View Post
    Let me give you a little insight:

    6 appears to be needlessly neurotic in my eyes. To 6, my ephemeral, ethereal 4ness is simply too much to consume: there is a strong desire to regulate my capricious nature because there is the perceived risk that a problem may one day arise to which I will have no answer. 6s seem to have a little difficulty in "just letting go" because they seem intent on planning as far ahead as possible. I, personally, cannot plan for any longer than about 6 months - to me, there's little point, since everything could change tomorrow; life is in constant flux.

    The key is negotiating the over-regulation of the 6 (towards the 4) and the 4's desire to daydream and forget about the boring details of life. If it's possible to meet in the middle, then I think it would be a good pairing.

    N.B. This 6 is also an ENFJ so, theoretically, an ENFP + ENFJ match-up may result in fewer Fi/Fe clashes...
    I think some 6's are better than others. The problem with this line of thinking is, truth be told, all the different types can piss me off in ways similar to this . 1's and 8's can be too aggro, 2's and 9's can be too hollow, 6's can worry too much, 3's can be too egotistical, relationships between 4's mean that neither feel special, 5's don't get my touchy-feely-nesss... guess there's still the 7's left?
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    ENFP type 8 wiith Anything is a good match!. :3 In my unbias opinion.
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