^ I didn't point that comment at you Jennifer, and I feel I have already explained my dramatic metaphor and language choices, which to me seem extreme, but through which I am trying to find boundaries.
Why are you personalizing this instead of trying to clarify it with me? EDIT: Perhaps I need to be more fully clear to say - "Yet that's how much of (generically) the SO stuff reads. I'm not just considering what's in this thread. I assumed that was clear but on a re-read, perhaps not.
I feel again that you misread my intention. So you do a door-slam, minimize/dismiss the material that offended you by reading in an interpretation or intention that did not exist, then toss a passive-aggressive comment out saying "I'm finished here."
And I am chasing this, to understand this. I am here and present and being REAL. I am saying things without the typical diplomatic polish I would apply to such conversations.
So I am being shut off. And being judged, again. Who's truthfully not interested in understanding?
I do respect and appreciate your exhaustion. Just please don't pin that on me or take it out on me.