Iíve just started exploring the enneagram and from some tests Iíve done, and the descriptions, it seems most likely that Iím either a 6 or a 4. Anyone want to have a shot at helping me figure it out? I know that 4 is much more common for INFJ, but 6 is at least a possibility.
6 is supposed to be full of doubt and seeking security. I certainly relate to those, much more than 4ís supposed glorification of ďothernessĒ. I would say that I do tend to feel different from other people Ė but less so than when I was younger Ė and these days, itís not something I want to focus on; I would prefer to have empathetic relationships with others and find at least a few people I can fit in with.
On the other hand, I do relate to the 4ís quest for intense emotional experiences and the desire for authenticity.
I am kind of leaning toward 6, because unlike many INFJís, I think my N is relatively weak and I am strongest on F and J! Besides INFJ, which I have concluded is definitely my type, I probably feel a bit closer to ISFJ than any other type. That would kind of seem to fit with being a type 6.
Anyone want to help me out? I havenít provided a lot of info here, but maybe you can ask me some useful questionsÖ As for the wings, Iím not sure I even want to go there yet! But I sort of figured if Iím either 6 or 4, Iím either 6w5 or 4w5. I donít really see myself being 6w7 or 4w3.