A 3w4 is a complex, conflicted type, and you're definitely that one. Unfortunately, as far as the MBTI is concerned, you haven't really addressed any of those personality traits in your description. You imply that you're ambiverted, but typically a person is going to swing one way or the other most of the time, either toward E or I. You seem to describe yourself as mostly a Judger. There is a hint of future orientation, which could be intuition. T and F are hard to distinguish in your description.