Don't ask these types to.. - Page 2

Ivy · 03-05-2008, 03:13 PM

stop being so sensitive- INFP or ISFJ

Athenian200 · 03-06-2008, 03:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Santtu

..act serious for a while?

ENxP

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..relax for a while?

IxxJ

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..calm down?

ExFJ

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..open up a bit?

IxTJ

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..reconsider their ideals?

INxJ

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..keep better record of their items?

IxxP

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..think before doing?

ESxP

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..find their inner peace?

ESxx

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..realize it's just money?

ExTJ

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..shrug off a public humiliation?

IxFJ

FDG · 03-06-2008, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Santtu

..think before doing?

That's the one that would piss me off the most.

Another more generalized phrasing that tends to piss me off is on the line of "let me show you how it's done" in terms of a given task - when I have not asked for help.

CzeCze · 03-06-2008, 06:38 AM

I think in terms of (don't expect one to) 'shrug off public humiliation' it's actually ENTJ that comes to mind. While it may stick or even wound some other types (like the sensitive INFP) I think the ENTJ would most take it as a big deal as they care so much about their public image and and hold a grudge and just wait for the day they can get you back.

I think some introvert types just aren't very invested in their public image (i.e. they don't care) or else are so shy they always expect to be embarassed somehow and it's not a shock when it happens. Extrovert types who enjoy being social and have an investment in their public image (or popularity) can bounce back from public humililation or even laugh at it depending on their type.

But, then you have the extroverts who care about their image and moreover care about maintaining a proper image 'worthy of respect' (so that rules out ENFP, ESTP, ESFP). I kinda put ESTJ and ENTJ up there as the most public image conscious in the classic sense. You know, I think ENFJ is also very invested in their public image and would also be pretty pissed and rankled by public humiliation and maybe even cry -- however, they could probably recover more easily because of their understanding of people and interpersonal skills and the fact they can get psychic nourishment from the condolences of supporters (NFs really do feed off energy, and not necessarily in a vampiric sense). Plus, I don't see ENFJ as the type to hold grudges (but I could be wrong)

ESTJ would just be moritified but I think recover by being straight and narrow again and kinda hit people over the head with their righteousness.

But it's the ENTJ as the one I see being vindicative.

philonightmare · 03-06-2008, 07:05 AM

..act serious for a while? ExFP
..relax for a while? ExTJ
..calm down? ExFJ
..open up a bit? IxTP
..reconsider their ideals? INFx
..keep better record of their items? ENxP
..think before doing? ExTP
..find their inner peace? xSTJ
..realize it's just money? ExTJ
..shrug off a a public humiliation? IxFJ
..be less serious? INxJ

Mort Belfry · 03-06-2008, 07:17 AM

I'm only going off of my experience, which is principally with Ps.

..act serious for a while? ESFP
..relax for a while? ESFP
..calm down? ESFP
..open up a bit? IXTX
..reconsider their ideals? INFP
..keep better record of their items? XNXP
..think before doing? ESFP
..find their inner peace? ESFP
..realize it's just money? ESFP
..shrug off a a public humiliation? INTP

I just have been at work all day where the ESFP next to me cannot ever shut his STUPID MOUTH!!!! This is not an attack on all ESFPs, just this fucker.

faith · 03-06-2008, 03:20 PM

Don't ask me (INFJ) to do a good job without being emotionally involved/invested.

I can detach, but then I just don't care and won't lift a finger to help. I've tried and tried, but when I shut off my attachments, I shut down.

INTJMom · 03-06-2008, 09:51 PM

One lesson I have learned is that I will never again trust an ENFP to meet an important deadline.
If there is a deadline, I will ask someone else.
I had a guy help me with his recording studio.
We missed the deadline not by days or weeks, but 2 months!

Though another ENFP I know was on time for a lunch appointment with me recently,
so I guess they can't all be that bad.

Mondo · 03-06-2008, 10:37 PM

Never ask an ENTJ to let others take the lead.
Never ask an ISFP to take the lead.

INTJMom · 03-06-2008, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Mondo

Never ask an ENTJ to let others take the lead.
Never ask an ISFP to take the lead.

But ENTJs are natural born leaders.

03-05-2008, 03:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
Ivy Avatar is non-ironic Join Date: Apr 2007 Type: ???? Posts: 8,074	stop being so sensitive- INFP or ISFJ __________________ I don't wanna face my fears! I'm afraid of 'em! -Spongebob

03-06-2008, 06:38 AM	#14 (permalink)
CzeCze Step Into My Centrifuge Join Date: Sep 2007 Type: ENFP Location: Minor Chords Posts: 3,256	I think in terms of (don't expect one to) 'shrug off public humiliation' it's actually ENTJ that comes to mind. While it may stick or even wound some other types (like the sensitive INFP) I think the ENTJ would most take it as a big deal as they care so much about their public image and and hold a grudge and just wait for the day they can get you back. I think some introvert types just aren't very invested in their public image (i.e. they don't care) or else are so shy they always expect to be embarassed somehow and it's not a shock when it happens. Extrovert types who enjoy being social and have an investment in their public image (or popularity) can bounce back from public humililation or even laugh at it depending on their type. But, then you have the extroverts who care about their image and moreover care about maintaining a proper image 'worthy of respect' (so that rules out ENFP, ESTP, ESFP). I kinda put ESTJ and ENTJ up there as the most public image conscious in the classic sense. You know, I think ENFJ is also very invested in their public image and would also be pretty pissed and rankled by public humiliation and maybe even cry -- however, they could probably recover more easily because of their understanding of people and interpersonal skills and the fact they can get psychic nourishment from the condolences of supporters (NFs really do feed off energy, and not necessarily in a vampiric sense). Plus, I don't see ENFJ as the type to hold grudges (but I could be wrong) ESTJ would just be moritified but I think recover by being straight and narrow again and kinda hit people over the head with their righteousness. But it's the ENTJ as the one I see being vindicative. __________________ Objectivity is what saves you. But subjectivity is what makes life worth living.

03-06-2008, 07:17 AM	#16 (permalink)
Mort Belfry ~pakehakeha~ Join Date: Jan 2008 Type: INTP Location: Location, Location. Posts: 1,255	I'm only going off of my experience, which is principally with Ps. ..act serious for a while? ESFP ..relax for a while? ESFP ..calm down? ESFP ..open up a bit? IXTX ..reconsider their ideals? INFP ..keep better record of their items? XNXP ..think before doing? ESFP ..find their inner peace? ESFP ..realize it's just money? ESFP ..shrug off a a public humiliation? INTP I just have been at work all day where the ESFP next to me cannot ever shut his STUPID MOUTH!!!! This is not an attack on all ESFPs, just this fucker. __________________ What it’s and its is, Is it’s it’s if it’s it is, But its like it’s his.

03-06-2008, 09:51 PM	#18 (permalink)
INTJMom He FELT the music. Join Date: Sep 2007 Type: INTJ Location: New England Posts: 4,280	One lesson I have learned is that I will never again trust an ENFP to meet an important deadline. If there is a deadline, I will ask someone else. I had a guy help me with his recording studio. We missed the deadline not by days or weeks, but 2 months! Though another ENFP I know was on time for a lunch appointment with me recently, so I guess they can't all be that bad. __________________ . . My Blog . firefox profanity filter

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03-06-2008, 07:05 AM	#15 (permalink)
philonightmare Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Type: xxxx Posts: 403	..act serious for a while? ExFP ..relax for a while? ExTJ ..calm down? ExFJ ..open up a bit? IxTP ..reconsider their ideals? INFx ..keep better record of their items? ENxP ..think before doing? ExTP ..find their inner peace? xSTJ ..realize it's just money? ExTJ ..shrug off a a public humiliation? IxFJ ..be less serious? INxJ

03-06-2008, 03:20 PM	#17 (permalink)
faith Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Type: INFJ Location: Alabama Posts: 388	Don't ask me (INFJ) to do a good job without being emotionally involved/invested. I can detach, but then I just don't care and won't lift a finger to help. I've tried and tried, but when I shut off my attachments, I shut down.

03-06-2008, 10:37 PM	#19 (permalink)
Mondo What A Sweetie! Join Date: Mar 2008 Type: ENTP Location: Long Island, NY (Home)-->Durham, NC (College) Posts: 1,473	Never ask an ENTJ to let others take the lead. Never ask an ISFP to take the lead.