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Fifty shades of grey....

Cellmold

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This makes me want to get a girlfriend, just so I can experience the feelings of inadequacy that any man with a grasp of current trends must experience when he sees his significant other reading this.

Or at least someone who is insecure...
 

Lark

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Not read it, not going to.

I saw a stand out today with all the books which are meant to be similar to it, Henry Miller got top billing in it and I think it is really shite, story of O, also shite, couple of other pop S&M books, shite too, the only ray of light was Anis Nin's Delta of Venus and In Praise of Older Women and Fanny Hill was absolutely no were to be seen.

It all only confirms for me that literary is not subversive or even mentally enriching.
 

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I think he's been chic-fil-a-ed.
 

ilikeitlikethat

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I got some coat for my birthday last year from a friend of mine and, the label/brand tag was cut out.

I just assumed it was stolen but, is that sexy? My friend's a girl.
 

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I'm not into it. At all.

I'd rather get a guy and have him tell me all the things he wants to do to me.
 

Mole

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The Billionaire, Freud and Marilyn

I was surprised to discover, "Fifty Shades of Grey", is not very sexy. In fact it is not about sex at all, it is about gaining control of a billionaire.

And what is even more surprising is this is what millions of women want.

But we shouldn't be surprised as this was prefigured by Sigmund Freud in his Electra Complex.

And we should be less suprised to hear the anthem sung by Marilyn, just click on - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QKK47bK_WA&feature=related
 

Mole

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Mr Grey will see you now.

My ideal husband would be ridiculously rich, young and good looking. He would be attracted to me because I am a pretty ingénue and a virgin.

He would be psychologically damaged and insist on acting out his damage on me. He would be easy to manipulate and putty in my hands.

And his name would be Mr Grey.
 

LonestarCowgirl

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My ideal husband would be ridiculously rich, young and good looking. He would be attracted to me because I am a pretty ingénue and a virgin.

He would be psychologically damaged and insist on acting out his damage on me. He would be easy to manipulate and putty in my hands.

And his name would be Mr Grey.

Ew. I know you have better sense than that.

A poor man with high character can build wealth more easily than a rich man with poor character.
 

Mole

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Ew. I know you have better sense than that.

A poor man with high character can build wealth more easily than a rich man with poor character.

The Fifty Shades of Grey, is a highly successful book of female pornography, now made into a highly popular movie particularly with women, click on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JMg9InBcgE

It is such a successful piece of female pornography, it is an x-ray into the sexual fantasies of women.

The Fifty Shades of Grey, answers the question, What would your ideal husband be like?

We can interpret this desire in a moral sense, or we can accept it as the fantasy of hundreds of millions of women.

Mbti offers us a fantasy false self, and, The Fifty Shades of Grey, takes us further - into the sexual fantasies of women.
 

five sounds

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There are a lot of women who think 50 shades of Grey is really messed up and distinctly unhot. Yeah it's popular, but I am offended to be lumped into "women who have that fantasy" honestly.

My ideal husband loves me unconditionally and shares a deep connection with me. No lists, just following my heart.
 

LonestarCowgirl

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The Fifty Shades of Grey, is a highly successful book of female pornography, now made into a highly popular movie particularly with women, click on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JMg9InBcgE

It is such a successful piece of female pornography, it is an x-ray into the sexual fantasies of women.

The Fifty Shades of Grey, answers the question, What would your ideal husband be like?

We can interpret this desire in a moral sense, or we can accept it as the fantasy of hundreds of millions of women.

Mbti offers us a fantasy false self, and, The Fifty Shades of Grey, takes us further - into the sexual fantasies of women.

I'm with [MENTION=18819]five sounds[/MENTION]; except I disagree on scrapping the list and solely following one's heart.

There are a lot of women who think 50 shades of Grey is really messed up and distinctly unhot. Yeah it's popular, but I am offended to be lumped into "women who have that fantasy" honestly.

My ideal husband loves me unconditionally and shares a deep connection with me. No lists, just following my heart.

Unconditional love is beautiful and magical amongst friends and family, but not in romance. If a couple wants to have sexual attraction over the long-term, they must have (a list of) compatible standards and boundaries they honor.

I doubt very many women are sexually attracted to the whip-able man-child that doesn't have a strong sense of masculine territory, direction, opinion and his own preferences.

Edit: Your heart can fool you if you're with a person of poor character in disguise. It may take dating a few people to discover hidden truths and realize ideals that make for mr. right (for you). There are fast, efficient ways of discovering the true character of a person to where you can predict with accuracy in less than a month of dating, the probability of you (or anyone else for that matter) remaining sexually attracted to them over the long-term and their ability to be a long-term committed partner to someone.
 
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