there are some adorable crushes on this page. i have alread posted clive owen and sanjay gupta in this thread. i'd also like to add todd sampson from the gruen transfer (aussie tv show). quite delicious.
I'm riding on this train here. Definitely agree - I'd have to feel like I know the person before I feel over someone. But I can say I have a thing for them, like I find them attractive. Just wanted to post another attractive girl.
Read her twitter a few times. I'm pretty sure she's an INFP. An unhealthy one, but pretty sure. Diora Baird.
It's interesting to see what other INFP males find attractive. Angell_m, my tastes differ from yours. I don't find any of your girls attractive. There, I said it. Except the Olsen girl, she's ok to look at. So, on that basis alone, it seems there is no pattern among INFP males.
I get what y'all are saying too, but I think celebrity crushes are a vehicle for fantasy- they are based on a fantasy of who you think the person is. I definitely don't get attracted to people based only on their looks. With a celebrity there's a lot of filling in the blanks based on small clues in their behavior- things like a certain way of looking at a costar, a lopsided smirk, and so on. Things that allow you to make assumptions about their personality and what it would be like to be with them. But it's a safe way of crushing on someone because there's absolutely no pressure to actually pursue the person- it's discouraged, in fact.
Celebrity crushes when I was an adolescent/teen were VERY intense, as intense or moreso than crushes I had on real boys. It was a way to spin the wheels of my sexuality which was kind of scary to me and I didn't even really want to engage it with real boys. But nowadays celebrity crushes for me are just slightly gooey feelings and an enjoyment of watching/listening to that person over other celebs that don't light it up for me.
The one who buggers a fire burns his penis
-anonymous graffiti in the basilica at Pompeii
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?