I'd probably go with "Positively 4th Street" or "Idiot Wind," but there are others. "I Want You" by Elvis Costello is both a "fuck you" and "fuck me, I want to kill myself" song. Lots of Elvis Costello's stuff has that "fuck you" vibe. Nas and Jay-Z traded great diss tracks. Steely Dan are another all-time great put-down bands.
Who wants to try a bottle of merc's "Extroversion Olive Oil?"
Oh, awesome! You added one of the many FU tracks of Fort Minor already.
I know some more FU songs. Some are telling it quite open and directly, some a little less. Note that this is very subjective.
Anything, Anything - Grey Daze
Wish (NIN Cover) - Linkin Park
No more Sorrow - Linkin Park
Given up - Linkin Park
Hit the Floor - Linkin Park
From the Inside - Linkin Park
Don't stay - Linkin Park
Lying from you - Linkin Park
One Step closer - Linkin Park
QWERTY - Linkin Park
Petrified - Fort Minor
Be Somebody - Fort Minor
Down with the Sickness - Disturbed
The last Song I am wasting on you - Evanescence
What goes around comes around - Justin Timberlake
Not coming Home - Maroon5
It's all over - Three Days Grace
Riot - Three Days Grace
Home - Three Days Grace
Drown - Three Days Grace
Sorry - Madonna
Song to say Goodbye - Placebo
Laugh, I nearly died (Supernatural OST S1) - Rolling Stones
No giving up now (Supernatural OST S1) - Crossfade
Hm, I will post more when I actually remember all the songs I always used to "vent". Has been quite a while, so sorry for the short list.
Rule #1: Driver picks the music. Shotgun shuts his cakehole.