The magical build up,
eagerness in the wait.
When tomorrow arrives,
are our dreams put to waste?
I looked so forward to see you;
I waited for days,
and when you arrived,
I just looked away.
The longing for closeness
that distance creates,
but in moments together
to still feel that space.
When time only feeds
the hoping for more,
anticipate the best
and wait for the fall.
Freude, schĂ¶ner GĂ¶tterfunken Tochter aus Elysium, Wir betreten feuertrunken, Himmlische, dein Heiligtum! Deine Zauber binden wieder Was die Mode streng geteilt; Alle Menschen werden BrĂĽder, Wo dein sanfter FlĂĽgel weilt.
When you have grown to love someone this much, you want to be perfect
Because they deserve perfection
They deserve everything
But what about a mistake that was made before the love
A mistake that served as the incipient of that love
I never thought my choice would stain the beautiful memories I've made with you
I made it before it felt like a mistake
Before we were us
I asked you if we were an item
You said that's a mutual decision for two to make
I took it the wrong way
I didn't know you loved me
I didn't know you wanted me to be yours
But were too timid to say so
And so I hurt you
But I only ended up hurting myself
Because I have to live with my lie
This happened when it all began
Before I loved you, before we were together
But it makes no difference
It might as well have been yesterday
I wish I could erase the past, but I can't
I wish I could find meaning in it, but I don't
I wish I could forget
Or see it as something that had to happen
But there is a scar on my heart
It hurts every time I feel something good
The guilt follows me like a shadow
Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship. Interpersonal Communication Theories and Concepts Social Penetration Theory 1 Social Penetration Theory 2 Social Penetration Theory 3