Maybe it's because I'm a F but to me the socially accepted element of "success" that interests me is simply the family aspect. If I can have a family and follow my passions I'm in heaven.
Mucho money or mucho status don't appeal to me really. I really mean that. I just want to be in a position where every day is a happy day. Where I enjoy going to work everyday (that is very important to me, to have a job I LIKE even if it's not that well payed) and where I can be happy when I come home (family drama/problems) not withstanding) knowing I've left my mark on this world (offspring) and have someone who I can love and that loves me back.