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    It doesnt distract me, especially if I dont find that person attractive already or for other reasons, infact its a bit off putting actually.

    I talked to a woman in a work situation once about a colleague who was behaving that way, wearing cleaveage revealing attire etc. and at that time I said I just associated a lot of that sort of behaviour with vulnerability of the kind I was often working with young people to try and make them aware of or grow out of.

    That, now, I dont believe is the whole story, I just sort of find it a bit gross that people will neglect modesty or flaunt themselves physically when there is no other connection towards others. Its an absolute turn off. It makes me think of antics like Peter Stringfellow in his old man thong or Borat in his mankini or something. I kind of feel conflicted because I can tell what whoever is trying to do and I just think this is not hot and you are making a fool of yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by YWIR View Post
    What is your opinion on cleavage/dress attire at work. What is appropriate?
    The bigger the bunnies and the hotter it is outside, the more cleavage gets exposed. High necklines are not practicle in July.
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    It's all cultural. Somehow, men have adapted to seeing the wanton displays of ankles in the workplace. In my work environment, a woman wouldn't be held back for for display cleavage, but she would attract unprofessional attention from sad little computer programmers.

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    I, personally, could care less. If people started showing up to work in bathing suits, I'd still get work done.

    It used to be a huge deal for a woman to show off necklines and ankles. Shoulders? What a slut. Now no one thinks twice about shoulders and ankles exposed on a daily basis. They're desensitized.

    It was a little shocking for me the first time I saw a bunch of women showering in the same space as me, and now I couldn't tell you anything about it.. how many women there were, what race they were, body types.. I just don't notice. You're always acutely aware of things that are out of the ordinary. For the work place, cleavage isn't generally that common. But I suspect, if people stopped throwing a fit over stupid shit, they'd find that it isn't really that big of a deal.

    I say, if you can walk around a beach in almost nothing and not get arrested, anything else is just people being courteous and nice.
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    Genuine work/cleavage DISASTER

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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by YWIR View Post
    Yup! Met lots of people like that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by andante View Post
    Hold it. So if a double GG woman were to wear a skin tight turtleneck, this would be acceptable but if another A cup woman were to unbutton one button, showing a hint of cleavage, this would distract?
    The shirt vs. the sight of skin is what truly evokes the emotion. If the bust is that voluble, of course its going to take notice. But its until one sees the skin of such a bust, AA or GG size that the carnal lusts are evoked.
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    Men must have lousy imaginations...

    Eta. ...of course, explains porn.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ivy View Post
    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    That's false.
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