I was thinking about it, but wasn't sure whether/what I should post before I've had a good think about whether I am a control freak, and if so, in what ways.
But because I'm not a J, it's sorta different than what you're describing in the OP... if I am, that is.
And I'm having a think about what you might mean - and what
I might mean - by "underlings". People who are legitimately in an actual formal position subordinate to me? Or just anyone who I try to control?
I don't think I do try to control people much... situations, yeah... which sometimes I guess entails a bit of indirect people control...
Hm, I'm trying to practice thinking harder before I post, see, so I wasn't gonna say anything until I'd thought out how to say it better. But since you're sad and blue cos nobody else replied yet... lol
