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Old 11-07-2007, 01:48 PM   #9 (permalink)
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No idea -- I don't compare hammer size. It's irrelevant.
Yeah yeah. Bet you been hit by enough to know the difference. Oh Zena of the Texan bars
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I prefer flechettes.
Personally I prefer THV but they're rare so I doubt they'd be any good.

The real question is what calibre?
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But more on topic,
there's a topic??? Oh yeah that thing
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you haven't really described the problem [and your attempts at a solution] enough to generate helpful input from anyone. How well do you know this INTJ? And in what context? Why do you care? Etc.

All INTJs are not created equal, y'know.
This much I recognise but I was trying to be specific. How to crack the shell of decisions and such to reach the decision making in progress. More detail would produce more sideline discussion would it not?

I'll illuminate the problem fully and see how it works out.
This INTJ. Mr Sour, is the DM of a gaming group. Now we've had a rocky start to the current game with people being unavailable and hence we've played only one evening so far in about three months. He's starting to get put off by this and how some people in the group (the extroverts) don't seem enthusiastic to him. I'm trying to gee him up by pointing out that they won't really be interested in the concept stage and that he should wait until we start playing to get a feel for their enthusiasm. However despite this and other more subtle attempts to keep him behind the project (without a DM we're screwed, for one thing, and for another Mr Sour is not always a popular person in our little circle and I like to spend some time devoted to keeping him all bright and shiny cause I'd hate to see him get upset at the amount of backlash he generates (he's a true NT )). As for why I care, he's a friend dumb-ass

Despite all that though I'd like to be able to use any advice in other contexts too, hence why I removed the context originally.

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