The ones I knew in real life are not as "girly" as Angelina Jolie.
One in fact is quite tomboyish, does QNX and other hardware-related coding, carries herself like a guy (how she walks, sit, holds her body), drinks beer, swears, loves sports, doesn't use makeup or do anything with her hair. But her self-concept is still female and she is a mom.
She's down-to-earth, pragmatic, hates wasting time talking about theoreticals and just wants to know what to do and get it done. She can be very blunt and not very diplomatic, because she's just not interested in the subterfuge necessary to lie. She just tosses things out and if you don't like it, well, too bad. (Sort of refreshing now....
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